"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sarging in a Foreign Country

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I'll be moving to Okinawa Japan soon and it struck me.. How do I sarge in a country that is not my own? I cant even speak the language. Has anyone ever done this? Completely with body language or maybe a translater? Any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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why are you moving there? i would love to move to JP, what nationality are you? i heard most women over there arent attracted to white men or foreign men for that matter because of different cultural views i guess, mostly...some other people on here might tell you otherwise though...
 
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I'm military, and of course my luck getting sent there. Im caucasion ..Im kind of excited cause of the atmosphere and the land, but nervouse cause of the women.
 
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You sure about that? Seems like every Asian woman I see is with a white man. But yeah, kinda hard to sarge I imagine if you can't speak the language.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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USMC, Ya Eveyone I talk to says they love Americans of any color, just the nationality gets u laid, but Im not after the sluts.. I like to game the girls that are hard to get
 
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When I was in Japan women threw themselves at me. They love English speaking foreigners.
 
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