"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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earlier this week I met a PUA at a bar, and we started talking mystery and style. this guy is a genius. he told me he has done very well at gay bars. what are your thoughs on sarging gay bars?

the way i see it is, instant disqualifier. Guy in a gay bar = probably gay = instant challenge. Discuss.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yeah, I wouldn't wanna be profiled in going into a gay bar. If you want try it and tell us the results.
 

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I've done it, check my journal. It's the only time I actualy kiss closed in it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You find 4 different kind of women at gay bars. Lesbians, Fag Hags, Straight Converters, Bi girls.
 

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Most women go to gay bars to avoid getting hit on. So you may find that they respond a tad negatively to your hetero a$$ being there.

BUT, it would make for an interesting first meeting. If you go with a gay friend, that gives you a good reason for being there. However, if she knows you're there with your straight guy friends, she'll know right away why it is you're there (which makes you look desperate).

I'd love to hear how you'd approach her in such a place.
 

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jamescr73 said:
earlier this week I met a PUA at a bar, and we started talking mystery and style. this guy is a genius. he told me he has done very well at gay bars. what are your thoughs on sarging gay bars?

the way i see it is, instant disqualifier. Guy in a gay bar = probably gay = instant challenge. Discuss.
earlier this week I met a Grey Alien at a bar and we started talking about Carl Sagan. this thing was a genius. he told me he has gone very far into outer space. what are your thoughts on the space/time continuum and it's relativity to Star Trek?

Do you know how ridiculous you sound? I met a PUA at a gay bar? I think you want to hit the rainbow village but don't want to come out.

Subterfuge is for suckers. Say what you mean and be done with it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just thought I'd add, I befriended some crazy stereotypical feminists at a lesbian bar one night, out for a birthday party for a friend of a friend. They were pretty amusing and fun to hang with. One was actually really hot.

Anyway, there's no point to that story other than it could be a fun time.
 

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I didnt know straight women go to gay bars. Even if it works I still would never do that.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
earlier this week I met a Grey Alien at a bar and we started talking about Carl Sagan. this thing was a genius. he told me he has gone very far into outer space. what are your thoughts on the space/time continuum and it's relativity to Star Trek?

Do you know how ridiculous you sound? I met a PUA at a gay bar? I think you want to hit the rainbow village but don't want to come out.

Subterfuge is for suckers. Say what you mean and be done with it.
never said I met him at a gay bar. Ive never been to a gay bar personally. I met him at a normal bar, and he made a comment about styles book, the game. We then proceeded to talk "the game".
 

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rjones said:
I didnt know straight women go to gay bars. Even if it works I still would never do that.
My ex used to go to gay bars all the time with her girlfriends (packs of 8-10). After I broke up with her, she picked up a straight guy from said bar, took him home and fvcked him, and made sure i found out about it.
 

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jamescr73 said:
never said I met him at a gay bar. Ive never been to a gay bar personally. I met him at a normal bar, and he made a comment about styles book, the game. We then proceeded to talk "the game".
Did he wear a neon pink sign which labeled him a PUA for all to see?

I just don't quite buy what you're selling. If you want to make a hustle picking up women at gay bars, please do it. But don't come up with some fanciful footwork about a rogue PUA.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I dare you to try it

but you probably won't, so this is what you'll find. it's 90% guys trying to mack on each other and making out everywhere. the females you'll see, most of them are 150+ lb lesbians whose shoulders are wider than yours. and the 2 or 3 straight women who went there, if you can actually find them because I couldn't, went there because they specifically did not wanna get hit on

now I guess if you wanted a challenge, you could try sarging at a gay bar. but if you're the average straight guy, you'll either be wierded out by the environment, or you'll be bored as hell because it's basically a cckfest where everyone is happy except you
 

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Well go ahead, james, but watch your drinks. You don't wanna wake up at 4am in the morning in a strange place with a sore arse.
 

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Gay bars are amazing to learn about female perspective on how guys pick up. I went to few gay bars in my life and the guys were hitting on me. The thing is,they make same mistakes we make while trying to pick up. So you can see how it is to be on the other side..lol.
 

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I might go to a gay bar one time, I mean if I can't get women then maybe I can at least interact with men and stop short of the sexual stuff. Might be nice to feel wanted and all and even make some new friends, even if they are gay. Nothing worse than going to a normal bar and getting nothing time after time because you aren't english or you don't have a 'cool' social group primarily because you're not english.

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My hs gf was a lesbian for a while in college; I used to go out drinking with her and her gf. They both taught middle school together, so at least looked semi-normal. Gay people party; maybe it is the stress of being gay, but they get fvcked up a lot.

If you have some lesbo friends, a gay bar can be fun. I would *not* recommend trying to pick up what you think is a woman, caveat emptor on that issue. I did have a fag hag or two all over me a time or two; my female friends once told me that a girl was outside telling her friends that she was going to pick me up and take me home, probably because I was the only straight guy in the place, but I was always more interested in getting sh!tfaced drunk and hitting on my lesbo friends for a threesome than a ONS from a gay bar. I never got that threesome from them, but the ex did cheat on her gf with me; the lesbo thing was just a phase :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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