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Sarging ex girlfriend

Jonnyj

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Hi guys, need some input if you don't mind.

I was seeing this girl but we broke up and I've yet to see her since, but there's a party next sat which we're both going to.

She's started seeing a guy i know a couple of weeks ago, he'll be there too but i still intend to sarge the **** out of her, i don't necessarily want her back, but i want her to want me back. Any tips on how to go about this? Any ideas on how to get past the new bf issue? I'm rekoning on him being a bit nervous about meeting me so could try to AMOG it big time. But i think my best bet may be to not sarge her directly, be quite disinterested, a few negs perhaps. But befriend him and give the group some DHVs, i'm rekoning that befriending him could give me some good social proof with the rest of the group and, in itself, be a great DHV.

I know he's a bit younger than she is, and she will have an issue with this. This could be a good way to get past him, any ideas on what to say to play on this insecurity much appreciatted.I'm not going to AMOG him big time because i'll come acrss as a jealous prick.

The 3 boyfriend destroyer links on seductiontuition seem quite good. but any more you know of would be good, i could really do with some ways to exploit the age issue she's got.

Thanks in advance
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonDan

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why not sarge some1 else at the party u puss, oh and i hope the bf kicks ur a55! GET OVER IT SHE HAS BETTER D1CK NOW!
 

Jonnyj

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Hahaha, there'll be plenty of talent to shark out there, and it'll allbe fair game. Just have a little thing in my head that i'd like the little boost of her wanting me back. I'd love him to try and kick my ass, he'd be out the door like **** off a shovel if he did.
 

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Sounds like your jealous of your ex's new boyfriend. The best thing to do would to just completely ignore her. You can say "hey, hows it going" if you approach her or she approaches you. If your having fun at this party and hitting on other girls. Not, paying her any attention she will get jealous of you. Wondering why you don't want her back or why you won't talk to her. Showing that, you moved on and don't care about her anymore. Ex's stay ex's for a reason.
 

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Jealously isn't a good thing.

If she catches on she'll realize you're as pathetic as you made yourself sound on the original post.

Be funny and ****y but respect the exclusivity of a relationship.

Be polite and go find some other people to hang out with.
 

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Adrian

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Sounds to me like you're trying to conceal the fact that you're not over her and still want her back. Why don't you actually just get over her dude. No offense man. With that mentalility and attitude you're carrying yourself with it's very likely that you'll end up fvcking yourself over.
 
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