Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sarging ex girlfriend

Jonnyj

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Hi guys, need some input if you don't mind.

I was seeing this girl but we broke up and I've yet to see her since, but there's a party next sat which we're both going to.

She's started seeing a guy i know a couple of weeks ago, he'll be there too but i still intend to sarge the **** out of her, i don't necessarily want her back, but i want her to want me back. Any tips on how to go about this? Any ideas on how to get past the new bf issue? I'm rekoning on him being a bit nervous about meeting me so could try to AMOG it big time. But i think my best bet may be to not sarge her directly, be quite disinterested, a few negs perhaps. But befriend him and give the group some DHVs, i'm rekoning that befriending him could give me some good social proof with the rest of the group and, in itself, be a great DHV.

I know he's a bit younger than she is, and she will have an issue with this. This could be a good way to get past him, any ideas on what to say to play on this insecurity much appreciatted.I'm not going to AMOG him big time because i'll come acrss as a jealous prick.

The 3 boyfriend destroyer links on seductiontuition seem quite good. but any more you know of would be good, i could really do with some ways to exploit the age issue she's got.

Thanks in advance
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonDan

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why not sarge some1 else at the party u puss, oh and i hope the bf kicks ur a55! GET OVER IT SHE HAS BETTER D1CK NOW!
 

Jonnyj

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Hahaha, there'll be plenty of talent to shark out there, and it'll allbe fair game. Just have a little thing in my head that i'd like the little boost of her wanting me back. I'd love him to try and kick my ass, he'd be out the door like **** off a shovel if he did.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Sounds like your jealous of your ex's new boyfriend. The best thing to do would to just completely ignore her. You can say "hey, hows it going" if you approach her or she approaches you. If your having fun at this party and hitting on other girls. Not, paying her any attention she will get jealous of you. Wondering why you don't want her back or why you won't talk to her. Showing that, you moved on and don't care about her anymore. Ex's stay ex's for a reason.
 

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Jealously isn't a good thing.

If she catches on she'll realize you're as pathetic as you made yourself sound on the original post.

Be funny and ****y but respect the exclusivity of a relationship.

Be polite and go find some other people to hang out with.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Adrian

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Sounds to me like you're trying to conceal the fact that you're not over her and still want her back. Why don't you actually just get over her dude. No offense man. With that mentalility and attitude you're carrying yourself with it's very likely that you'll end up fvcking yourself over.
 
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