One on One
Master Don Juan
Anybody know a good excuse for sarging a college campus when you already graduated? I'm sure a girl would ask why you are there once she finds out you don't go to school there.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sarging campuses when not in college?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TooColdUlrick
Master Don Juan
-you were doing research
-attending a seminar
-buying a text
-picking up chicks
-attending a seminar
-buying a text
-picking up chicks
MindOverMatter
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I do this all the time, and I usually use the library/gym directions opener.
raven_82
Don Juan
Last week I read an article in the paper that a local university has a record number of women with this year's class and one of the highest girl to guy ratios in the country. I am thinking about talking a night class so I can get a library card.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
I know...if she asks:
"If you don't attend XYZ College, then why are you here?"
Try...
A) I'm seeing some friends.
B) If I told you I'd have to kill you.
C) Official business?
D) What is this? A friggin' interrogation?!
Ben
"If you don't attend XYZ College, then why are you here?"
Try...
A) I'm seeing some friends.
B) If I told you I'd have to kill you.
C) Official business?
D) What is this? A friggin' interrogation?!
Ben
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
diplomatic_lies
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If you're from another college say so, and just say you're here for some debate/event. I see people at my college that shouldn't even belong, and nobody minds.
Or if you have guts- tell her straight up "I'm here to pick up a chick and get laid"
Or if you have guts- tell her straight up "I'm here to pick up a chick and get laid"
que_est_suave
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yeah sarge other unis and other campuses! hehe