"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sarging at Amusement Parks

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Just thought I'd throw on a couple of these venues for discussion as I was unable to find them on searches.

What is the chances of being successful to sarge at an Amusement Park, if you are going by yourself, as compared to other venues. Again, people at amusement parks are in a state of excitement, making it a great venue (as someone said in another o fmy posts). However, girls will likely often go in pairs, making it seem likely that a wingman will be required, and the average age of people there seem rather young, making me feel almost like a predator to sarge in that type of environment having already passed 30.

Has anyone tried sarging at amusement parks? I know people have gone there on first or second dates, but going by yourself seems rather far to sarge, and I dont know how even finding a pivot in such a place like that would even work.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't know, that's a good question.

But I have been on two first dates at amusement park/carnival, and I can tell you that there are certain things you have to be aware of. It's a very high energy and over-whelming environment, so it's going to feel different. But you have to always stay with an alpha frame.
 

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I would not recommend it, cuase the people are generally either young(15-21) or are married and with there family. Its unlikely you will find many viable targets, plus you would need a wingman cause not many people if any go alone. But sometimes the groups of people are very large, like 4-10 girls/guys so you chances are pretty much nil there. You do have one thing going for you though: They are on vacation and might do something crazy, and you have something going against you: They are on vacation and you cant develop much with them. So it works both ways. However I would not choose that as a place to sarge just for the sake of sarging. Yet if I happened to be there with some friends and an oppurtunity arose I would go for it but it wouldnt be my goal of going.
 

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This would be an interesting place to sarge, I think I will be going to one in the next few weeks. I will have to keep an eye out on others behavoir while there.
 
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