"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sarging at Amusement Parks

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Just thought I'd throw on a couple of these venues for discussion as I was unable to find them on searches.

What is the chances of being successful to sarge at an Amusement Park, if you are going by yourself, as compared to other venues. Again, people at amusement parks are in a state of excitement, making it a great venue (as someone said in another o fmy posts). However, girls will likely often go in pairs, making it seem likely that a wingman will be required, and the average age of people there seem rather young, making me feel almost like a predator to sarge in that type of environment having already passed 30.

Has anyone tried sarging at amusement parks? I know people have gone there on first or second dates, but going by yourself seems rather far to sarge, and I dont know how even finding a pivot in such a place like that would even work.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't know, that's a good question.

But I have been on two first dates at amusement park/carnival, and I can tell you that there are certain things you have to be aware of. It's a very high energy and over-whelming environment, so it's going to feel different. But you have to always stay with an alpha frame.
 

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I would not recommend it, cuase the people are generally either young(15-21) or are married and with there family. Its unlikely you will find many viable targets, plus you would need a wingman cause not many people if any go alone. But sometimes the groups of people are very large, like 4-10 girls/guys so you chances are pretty much nil there. You do have one thing going for you though: They are on vacation and might do something crazy, and you have something going against you: They are on vacation and you cant develop much with them. So it works both ways. However I would not choose that as a place to sarge just for the sake of sarging. Yet if I happened to be there with some friends and an oppurtunity arose I would go for it but it wouldnt be my goal of going.
 

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This would be an interesting place to sarge, I think I will be going to one in the next few weeks. I will have to keep an eye out on others behavoir while there.
 
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