"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sarging Alone?

IWillbe

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Hey everyone, I've been lurking here quite a while but never really had any questions I needed to ask until now.

I have plenty of friends, some male, and a few close female friends, but obviously the reason I'm here is that I don't have any girls to have sex with. My friends are not the type of people to just go to random places and sarge, which I think is going to be really important in bringing me out of my shell. I don't care about rejection, I just want to be comfortable and confident enough to approach any girl.

So, should I try and get my friends to come with me, or just do my best on my own? Isn't it a little odd to just drive somewhere all alone and try and pick up girls? Do I NEED wingmen?

Any advice from people who have picked up girls alone?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Doggystyle

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even if i am out with friends i pick up girls alone, i wander away from the group on go on my own little missions (james bond theme tune starts as doggystyle slams down his vodka martini (pint of larger) on the bar and army rolls over to some unsuspecting girl)

if you do go out on your own, make sure you appear comfortable being on your own
 

dannowillbookem

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i never really digged sarging on my own. im a loner at heart and i really used to be a total loser, so if i go out now alone i feel a bit ashamed and guilty for not being with someone.
 
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