"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sarging Alone?

IWillbe

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Hey everyone, I've been lurking here quite a while but never really had any questions I needed to ask until now.

I have plenty of friends, some male, and a few close female friends, but obviously the reason I'm here is that I don't have any girls to have sex with. My friends are not the type of people to just go to random places and sarge, which I think is going to be really important in bringing me out of my shell. I don't care about rejection, I just want to be comfortable and confident enough to approach any girl.

So, should I try and get my friends to come with me, or just do my best on my own? Isn't it a little odd to just drive somewhere all alone and try and pick up girls? Do I NEED wingmen?

Any advice from people who have picked up girls alone?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Doggystyle

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even if i am out with friends i pick up girls alone, i wander away from the group on go on my own little missions (james bond theme tune starts as doggystyle slams down his vodka martini (pint of larger) on the bar and army rolls over to some unsuspecting girl)

if you do go out on your own, make sure you appear comfortable being on your own
 

dannowillbookem

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i never really digged sarging on my own. im a loner at heart and i really used to be a total loser, so if i go out now alone i feel a bit ashamed and guilty for not being with someone.
 
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