Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sarge in person not online

frivolousz21

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I know im practically married with my fiance and 6 week old son.


but....looking back..all I can say is that...sarging in person is about 10000000000 times better.

I have women I work with that all want me....I know women want a man that is taken..or so its said.

but its not that...its because now that im taken..and before I was taken......I was like this..but more now....I just dont give a fyck waht they think..I am a lab tech at a digital photo lab..I wear workout shorts and old t shirts to work...sometimes i shower at night and my hair looks like pure shyt...Ive gained 20 lbs of fat in a yr..

but im happy and content with myself..and confident..and the hot 18-24 yr olds that work here....all want my nuts because I exude confidence..

I came to work the other day and was like listen everyone this is the most funny thing..and I played the leroy jenkins clip...I talk about my halo dominance everyday and they think im just "so cute"

listen..I wish 5 yrs ago..I realized all this.

but I didnt..I was wonderign around afraid of saying hi.

but I grew up..and i realized how women arent shyt..other then my fiance....who takes care of my son...these girls I work with are a dime a dozen.

i could fyck all of them..and part of me wants too..but I love my family and that would be just wrong for me to do that.

but Im telling you..you guys even though..your not taken..can have it this way.

just be happy with yourself..be confident with what you want...confidence is tricky..its a state of mind..but its everything.

I mean its EVERYTHING
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What you fail to realize is that the purpose to sarging online is to meet the woman in person (at least if you know what you're doing). ;)
 

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Whatever floats your boat they say, eh.

Don't see how that post ties into "sarge outside, not online". So now a bunch of cute girls want you because you don't care, a nice discovery, Who knew girls liked guys like that. But you are too much of a family man to go for it.

And online? Who cares if it gets guys laid, right? Everyone should do what the married men are doing. Haha, I dunno dude, I thought you were going to make fun of online dating and say how approaching in person is better (but for no evident reason cause you can't make an argument against it). In person is more fun, yes. In person takes more confidence, yes. But in the end, it is all ***** so it doesn't matter. What is it to you or me if guys like to be an online mack? Online is maybe 20-30% of my incoming girls, but I still like in person better. Anyone who does bash online macking though is just mad because other guys do it and get twice as many numbers with half of the skill, time, and effort that the guys in person do. Nothing wrong with taking the easy way out though.
 

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Good advice. A good ole' "be yourself" confidence booster.

Sounds to me, though, you're not ready for your.... retirement. A man never loses his passion, for that would be the death of his soul. Who's rules are you living by to distinguish right and wrong? Your's? Your mom's? God's? ... and you're not married with all these young women after your nuts.

Just helping you think some. I hope if I'm ever in your situation I have something to help remind me that my life is my own. Pardon me if you disagree.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Friv, this post doesn't make sense, neither does your other one about "call women out on their shyt." How about, you just avoid people who act that way?

But back to this post.

The 1/2 million dollar question, should I sarge online or in person? DOES IT FVCKIN MATTER, lol, lol.

I am still going to have to be confident, have a sense of self, have peace, etc., in other words, be a man, in person when I meet her.

Sarging online is FASTER, especially when you are looking to meet women and build up a pvssy flow.

1. It takes about 10 mintues to put your pic up, then about 30 minutes to send it out to all the chicks in your area
2. The chicks that are interested, send you a response.
3. You respond back to them, get their number, give them yours
4. Phone sex her on the phone,
5. Meet her and fvck her.

Steps 1 and 2, if you were doing outside, it would take a lot of approaches to get the response you get from online, AND THEY ARE THE SAME CHICKS YOU WOULD BE APPROACHING OUTSIDE ANYWAY.

It's faster, it weeds out un-interested chicks, it's better.

Case closed
 
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