"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sarge in person not online

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I know im practically married with my fiance and 6 week old son.


but....looking back..all I can say is that...sarging in person is about 10000000000 times better.

I have women I work with that all want me....I know women want a man that is taken..or so its said.

but its not that...its because now that im taken..and before I was taken......I was like this..but more now....I just dont give a fyck waht they think..I am a lab tech at a digital photo lab..I wear workout shorts and old t shirts to work...sometimes i shower at night and my hair looks like pure shyt...Ive gained 20 lbs of fat in a yr..

but im happy and content with myself..and confident..and the hot 18-24 yr olds that work here....all want my nuts because I exude confidence..

I came to work the other day and was like listen everyone this is the most funny thing..and I played the leroy jenkins clip...I talk about my halo dominance everyday and they think im just "so cute"

listen..I wish 5 yrs ago..I realized all this.

but I didnt..I was wonderign around afraid of saying hi.

but I grew up..and i realized how women arent shyt..other then my fiance....who takes care of my son...these girls I work with are a dime a dozen.

i could fyck all of them..and part of me wants too..but I love my family and that would be just wrong for me to do that.

but Im telling you..you guys even though..your not taken..can have it this way.

just be happy with yourself..be confident with what you want...confidence is tricky..its a state of mind..but its everything.

I mean its EVERYTHING
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What you fail to realize is that the purpose to sarging online is to meet the woman in person (at least if you know what you're doing). ;)
 
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Whatever floats your boat they say, eh.

Don't see how that post ties into "sarge outside, not online". So now a bunch of cute girls want you because you don't care, a nice discovery, Who knew girls liked guys like that. But you are too much of a family man to go for it.

And online? Who cares if it gets guys laid, right? Everyone should do what the married men are doing. Haha, I dunno dude, I thought you were going to make fun of online dating and say how approaching in person is better (but for no evident reason cause you can't make an argument against it). In person is more fun, yes. In person takes more confidence, yes. But in the end, it is all ***** so it doesn't matter. What is it to you or me if guys like to be an online mack? Online is maybe 20-30% of my incoming girls, but I still like in person better. Anyone who does bash online macking though is just mad because other guys do it and get twice as many numbers with half of the skill, time, and effort that the guys in person do. Nothing wrong with taking the easy way out though.
 
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Good advice. A good ole' "be yourself" confidence booster.

Sounds to me, though, you're not ready for your.... retirement. A man never loses his passion, for that would be the death of his soul. Who's rules are you living by to distinguish right and wrong? Your's? Your mom's? God's? ... and you're not married with all these young women after your nuts.

Just helping you think some. I hope if I'm ever in your situation I have something to help remind me that my life is my own. Pardon me if you disagree.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Friv, this post doesn't make sense, neither does your other one about "call women out on their shyt." How about, you just avoid people who act that way?

But back to this post.

The 1/2 million dollar question, should I sarge online or in person? DOES IT FVCKIN MATTER, lol, lol.

I am still going to have to be confident, have a sense of self, have peace, etc., in other words, be a man, in person when I meet her.

Sarging online is FASTER, especially when you are looking to meet women and build up a pvssy flow.

1. It takes about 10 mintues to put your pic up, then about 30 minutes to send it out to all the chicks in your area
2. The chicks that are interested, send you a response.
3. You respond back to them, get their number, give them yours
4. Phone sex her on the phone,
5. Meet her and fvck her.

Steps 1 and 2, if you were doing outside, it would take a lot of approaches to get the response you get from online, AND THEY ARE THE SAME CHICKS YOU WOULD BE APPROACHING OUTSIDE ANYWAY.

It's faster, it weeds out un-interested chicks, it's better.

Case closed
 
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