"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sammo Transformed / Your Transformation

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The last 6- weeks of my ljfe have been the most intense of my entire life, they have been crazy, i have worked harder then ever before, i have partied harder then ever before, i have done things i could only dream of doing before. I am asking you to join me on my 8 week adventure to experience what it was like, to experience what life really can be like.

I'm not going to crap on, this bootcamp isnt about reading material, im giving you a choice, straight up:

1)Experience these 6 weeks and grow as a person
2)Dont experience these 6 weeks and remain as you are.

The choice is yours.

So if you picked choice number 1 then keep on reading, if not then get the **** out of my thread. :) A good thing: You wont have to read much, the only things you will have to read will be the actions you actually have to perform.

Before you start, make sure you look at these 6 weeks as an exciting journey not a chore. Heres a brief overview:

Week 1 - Physical tension
Week 2 - Mental and physical tension combined
Week 3 - Tests of will
Week 4 - Social tension
Week 5 - Humourous tension
Week 6 - Jerk for a week

Once these 6 weeks have been completed its time for a little self analysis!! Were not stopping there ;), more about that later. Once you have fixed your self analysis up it looks like your truely ready to get girls! I will post another 6 week progress for improving your chances with girls, except this time around it will be for fun and not because of your desperation.

Keep Tuned!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what the phuck is this guy on?

elaborate on each of those phases
 

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Me too Sammo. I know you for years, it's good to trust someone I know for years. You might or don't know me. :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why not? Sounds like it'll spice things up. I'm in.
 

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I am down. Elaborate tho plz.
 

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Why elaborate? That post pretty much just said that i will be posting an 8 week bootcamp that will be exciting, people dont seem to lilke small posts.

Why do they do this? Their mind seems to think if its small and easy to read then it musnt be of high quality, the magic answer must be some kind of 5000 word essay.

Why are some people rich and some people are poor? Well, simply put, the rich take complicated thing and make it simple and the poor make a simple thing complicated. Same thing goes here, im going to give it to you simple and straight, no point in wasting your time. Look at the next post, its the intro course.
 

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Sammo Transformed - Introduction

Welcome to the introduction course of my bootcamp, the idea here is to get you phyched about the 6 week period and making yourself realise that life is an adventure and it is an adventure to be enjoyed!

One day of this school week I want you to wake up earlier then you ussually do (make sure you have had plenty of sleep the night before) and get up out of bed, have a big stretch and go and eat a nice big healthy breakfast, go out and look at the sunrise.

The idea of this day is to completely focus on TODAY, not tomorrow and not yesterday. Everything you have wanted to do, you do TODAY! No holding back today, who cares what happens tomorrow make this day count. Make it a day to remember, prove to yourself you can make a good day out of nothing. Every morning you wake up you are the same as every other man that wakes up, the thing that sets your day apart from everyone else is what you are THINKING and FEELING. Remember that.


To do this you may have to amp yourself up in the morning, everyone knows what its like, have a nice big shower, hop out make yourself look nice and pretty ;). Then get yourself amped up by listening to music and doing what ever you do to make yourself feel it.

Remember, its all about TODAY! Today will be fun, post your experiences in this thread, if you dont post experiences then you obviously havent done enough.

It also wouldnt hurt to read ]BBB - The man because it was this post that inspired the intro to all this (Thanks Brazilian;)).

Im going to do it with you guys as well, you can read up on what i did tomorrow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sh*t i kinda have a problem not thinking about fulture cuz i have a court to go to and i have to cut school friday , now how do i get to court without letting parents know is a problem that i am facing till this weekend cuz if i dont show up and pay my ticket i am getting taken away (no more sosuave and all u guys!) so just to let u kno if i am not doing it like u want me to is becuz its been crazy months since i got the ticket after this weekend i should be able to focus on the BC 100%
 

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I did what u said to do today Sammo. You guys can check out my Field report in Discussion, titled PPPPPP PIMP - UNIT!
 

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where is everyone ??? i thought a lot of ppl joined well i finally can focus on this thing if sammo is still in well i try to focus on just today and do at ever i want but some thime i forget it in the moment but i am giving it another try tomoro
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i'm gonna bump this and hope that Sammo decides to start this up again. I'm looking to do some sort of boot camp that is more high school oriented. Come on Sammo, I'm counting on you.
 

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Just what I needed

This is just what I needed, another bootcamp. Great and since it will be created by a HighSchool student I am asuming that it will be aimed towards us, High School wannabe DJs.

I am anxious to start!!:cool:
Great Idea Sammo!:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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