"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Same School or Different School? That Is The Question.

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I've seen my friends with their girls that go to our school and they are constantly together. Sometimes I wonder if the flame they have will burn out because they're attached at the hip. But I think about some guys I know, they have girlz at other schools and I wonder if their girlz are fooling around on them.


Just curious as to what you all think; date a girl from your school or from another school?
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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strams4ever

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If you date a girl from a different school you can meet a whole group of people who you probably haven't met before. It really depends on the girl, but once you exaust all the possibilities in your school, try another. :)
 

NYC Dude

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Why not just date a girl from your school, and a girl (or girls) from other schools? Just make sure they don't all find out about one another. If that isn't your route though, it is much easier to maintain attraction with a girl from another school as you will not see them all the time. Then again, if there is a girl at your own school that you fancy, there is no reason to not go out with them because of that reason.
 

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Go for 'em all. It shouldn't matter which school they go to. The only advantage I see either way is that if the girl goes to a different school, you can build more social proof with the girls at your school. They figure that if you know people from other schools, you must be pretty cool.
 

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Originally posted by benassi
Be like me & get with chicks from other schools, their normally hotter, and they don't know ANYTHING about you. So it's like a fresh start with new girls because if you try to get with one girl from your school she needs all the other girls approval otherwise it's gonna be like OMG UR DATING HIM. haha.. Stay away from your school, but here or there fcukin one from the same school is good too! go get em playa :woo:
Yeah I agree. Most girls (and guys too actually) at my school are way too concerned about who they hang out with and if those people are cool or not, so it's much easier to get with hot girls from other schools.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm of the opinion that quality over quantity, at least at the start, is important.
I'd go for other school.
At school it's early, might get tired, pissed off, whatever, not the best way to get your gf to associate you with the positive side of life.
your call, though.
benassi raises the good point of it being a clean slate, from your school you're probably known.
 
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