"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Same School or Different School? That Is The Question.

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I've seen my friends with their girls that go to our school and they are constantly together. Sometimes I wonder if the flame they have will burn out because they're attached at the hip. But I think about some guys I know, they have girlz at other schools and I wonder if their girlz are fooling around on them.


Just curious as to what you all think; date a girl from your school or from another school?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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strams4ever

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If you date a girl from a different school you can meet a whole group of people who you probably haven't met before. It really depends on the girl, but once you exaust all the possibilities in your school, try another. :)
 

NYC Dude

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Why not just date a girl from your school, and a girl (or girls) from other schools? Just make sure they don't all find out about one another. If that isn't your route though, it is much easier to maintain attraction with a girl from another school as you will not see them all the time. Then again, if there is a girl at your own school that you fancy, there is no reason to not go out with them because of that reason.
 

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Go for 'em all. It shouldn't matter which school they go to. The only advantage I see either way is that if the girl goes to a different school, you can build more social proof with the girls at your school. They figure that if you know people from other schools, you must be pretty cool.
 

familyguyfan

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Originally posted by benassi
Be like me & get with chicks from other schools, their normally hotter, and they don't know ANYTHING about you. So it's like a fresh start with new girls because if you try to get with one girl from your school she needs all the other girls approval otherwise it's gonna be like OMG UR DATING HIM. haha.. Stay away from your school, but here or there fcukin one from the same school is good too! go get em playa :woo:
Yeah I agree. Most girls (and guys too actually) at my school are way too concerned about who they hang out with and if those people are cool or not, so it's much easier to get with hot girls from other schools.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm of the opinion that quality over quantity, at least at the start, is important.
I'd go for other school.
At school it's early, might get tired, pissed off, whatever, not the best way to get your gf to associate you with the positive side of life.
your call, though.
benassi raises the good point of it being a clean slate, from your school you're probably known.
 
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