"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Same School or Different School? That Is The Question.

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I've seen my friends with their girls that go to our school and they are constantly together. Sometimes I wonder if the flame they have will burn out because they're attached at the hip. But I think about some guys I know, they have girlz at other schools and I wonder if their girlz are fooling around on them.


Just curious as to what you all think; date a girl from your school or from another school?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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strams4ever

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If you date a girl from a different school you can meet a whole group of people who you probably haven't met before. It really depends on the girl, but once you exaust all the possibilities in your school, try another. :)
 

NYC Dude

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Why not just date a girl from your school, and a girl (or girls) from other schools? Just make sure they don't all find out about one another. If that isn't your route though, it is much easier to maintain attraction with a girl from another school as you will not see them all the time. Then again, if there is a girl at your own school that you fancy, there is no reason to not go out with them because of that reason.
 

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Go for 'em all. It shouldn't matter which school they go to. The only advantage I see either way is that if the girl goes to a different school, you can build more social proof with the girls at your school. They figure that if you know people from other schools, you must be pretty cool.
 

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Originally posted by benassi
Be like me & get with chicks from other schools, their normally hotter, and they don't know ANYTHING about you. So it's like a fresh start with new girls because if you try to get with one girl from your school she needs all the other girls approval otherwise it's gonna be like OMG UR DATING HIM. haha.. Stay away from your school, but here or there fcukin one from the same school is good too! go get em playa :woo:
Yeah I agree. Most girls (and guys too actually) at my school are way too concerned about who they hang out with and if those people are cool or not, so it's much easier to get with hot girls from other schools.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm of the opinion that quality over quantity, at least at the start, is important.
I'd go for other school.
At school it's early, might get tired, pissed off, whatever, not the best way to get your gf to associate you with the positive side of life.
your call, though.
benassi raises the good point of it being a clean slate, from your school you're probably known.
 
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