"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Said she wanted to be f*ck buddies

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Have a thing for this girl, the second date went awesome. When walking around after eating dinner, she says "so I just got out of a three-year relationship and was wondering if you were okay with being **** buddies".

So now my question is: Do I keep taking this girl out on dates once a week and try to continue that courting phase?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Definitely not. She's clearly stated her intentions to you, you can accept this and have her as your fb or move on if you're just looking for a relationship.
This is what girls are always trying to do, pin down the guy (who just wants to fvck around) into a relationship which usually results in them being hurt or at the very least pissed off for losing so much time trying to get with someone who simply isn't interested. Don't put yourself into that role.
Personally I'd see this as a blessing. You have a plate who is seemingly willing to be just that for you. Just make sure you wrap up as you have no idea how many other dudes she is banging.
This girl is not relationship material anyway, she made that clear.
 

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She a slvt. Would you like fries with your syphilis?
 

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After her statement to you, only bedroom dates, dinner, or a movie at Home for her. Don't be the rebound guy or catch feelings. She's not serious about anything but sex right now, and you should have the same attitude also. Bone her well and maybe she hangs around a while…
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fvck her, have fun with it and be on the lookout for more chicks you're interested in because the fvck buddy thing never lasts more than a month or two.
 

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Have a thing for this girl, the second date went awesome. When walking around after eating dinner, she says "so I just got out of a three-year relationship and was wondering if you were okay with being **** buddies".

So now my question is: Do I keep taking this girl out on dates once a week and try to continue that courting phase?
it means you just netflix n chill from now on, you cannot possibly have won any harder than you did with this chick

but be wary of the fact that there's a 50% chance that you'll never ever date her and your FWB thing will go until you get sick of each other or one of you finds a steady bf/gf

and there's a 50% chance that 6 months down the line she'll say no more sex until we become official
 

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Have a thing for this girl, the second date went awesome. When walking around after eating dinner, she says "so I just got out of a three-year relationship and was wondering if you were okay with being **** buddies".

So now my question is: Do I keep taking this girl out on dates once a week and try to continue that courting phase?
LMAO...

Chick: "I want to fvck your brains out"
OP: "How bout dinner and a movie..."

Lmao...and then guys wonder why they can't get laid...this chick came out and literally TOLD YOU SHE WANTS TO FVCK and you still want to take her out on a date...SMFH
 

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Even Wikipedia has a page on fbuddy do's and dont's. Research it since it's your 1st go round.
Don't be a püssy about it, if you have rules then stick to them and talk to her about it.

No courting crap or dinner crap, no fvking cuddling! The majority of the time you will be just b*nging her out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is one of the raunchiest lines I ever heard. And I've got 200 stripper's phone numbers, and 70% of strippers are hookers. Beware.
 

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Have a thing for this girl, the second date went awesome. When walking around after eating dinner, she says "so I just got out of a three-year relationship and was wondering if you were okay with being **** buddies".

So now my question is: Do I keep taking this girl out on dates once a week and try to continue that courting phase?
No. You just smash.
 

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This is one of the raunchiest lines I ever heard. And I've got 200 stripper's phone numbers, and 70% of strippers are hookers. Beware.
hahahaha...RTF is definitely bordering on suspected troll...
 

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Ignore guys on here who say she's a walking STD. Smash her raw if that's your cup of tea. And don't spend money on dates.!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Oh women these days.... tell you after a couple dates they got out of a relationship and basically are just looking for some ****. Personally if she said she was in that long term of a situation thrn I'd guess she's clean, just wrap it up.
1. Invite her over once to twice a week. 2.Preferably 8pm or later.
3. Movie nights at home or a quick movie at theater
4. Don't text too much. Let her initiate. If you're giving her good D, she'll be back a lot. Just don't blow it by being needy and texting every god damn day. She's a **** buddy, not a GF ATM.
5. If you think she's a good catch after all your bedroom talk, keep banging her good and let her feelings grow from there.
6. If she does want to be a casual date eventually, play it aloof and let her initiate that convo. Just stick to drinks and pool, movie, or a night in.
 

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Have a thing for this girl, the second date went awesome. When walking around after eating dinner, she says "so I just got out of a three-year relationship and was wondering if you were okay with being **** buddies".

So now my question is: Do I keep taking this girl out on dates once a week and try to continue that courting phase?
Have you ever had a FWB?
 

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I met a chick I've met for drinks twice after work. She messaged me at 5pm asking if I could meet her for a drink on my way home. Just 1 she said lol.

4 beers, a shot and splitting a frozen margarita on steroids (she had 3 glasses of wine...which is a bottle) she tells me that she just wants someone mature who can pleasure her and dominate her when she needs it. She is tired of the BOB (battery operated bf). I look her right in the eyes and whispered in her ear "you just want to fvck me."

I tell her that I'm cool with it as she doesn't catch feelings. She invites me over at 10pm tonight.

Do the math. I'll be there at 10:15 lol. Texts me pics of her in lingere just a few minutes ago. I tell her that she is wearing too much, but I'll take care of that when I get there.

Fvck buddies are great, but they expire. Enjoy it while it lasts.
 
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