"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Said I was "sweet" then made out with me

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So I took this girl on a date after chatting with her a bit. As a RAFC I tried my best not to be too "nice". We had already talked about sex topics before going out so I had that going for me. I did loads of kino on her and we had more talk about sex during the date which went really well. I didn't suplicate yet I gave her plenty of hints that I was attracted to her with sexual inuendo. Took her back home and gave her a little kiss on the lips. She then got real close and told me in a sexy voice what a great time she had and how sweet I was to her as she gazed right into my eyes. Right after that she literaly stuck her tongue down my throat and we made out pretty passionatly for a few minutes before she went inside.

So is this a case where a women saying your "Sweet" isnt a bad thing, as in "you're a nice guy"?
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A girl I was with always said the same thing...and she would always say: "you're cute". It made me feel somewhat childish or un-manly when she said that, but she assured me that if a girl is smiling and says: "you're cute," it's a very good thing.
 

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Originally posted by Timster
A girl I was with always said the same thing...and she would always say: "you're cute". It made me feel somewhat childish or un-manly when she said that, but she assured me that if a girl is smiling and says: "you're cute," it's a very good thing.
I feel that way too when a girl says that, I thought usually you use the word 'cute' for girls. At least that's what I say anyway. But I guess it's better than saying your 'ugly' lol. :D
 

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Apparently there's good 'sweet' and bad 'sweet', and good 'cute' and "bad" 'cute'.

Is there a 'bad' 'hot'?

In any case, don't give it too much thought.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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