"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Said I was "sweet" then made out with me

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So I took this girl on a date after chatting with her a bit. As a RAFC I tried my best not to be too "nice". We had already talked about sex topics before going out so I had that going for me. I did loads of kino on her and we had more talk about sex during the date which went really well. I didn't suplicate yet I gave her plenty of hints that I was attracted to her with sexual inuendo. Took her back home and gave her a little kiss on the lips. She then got real close and told me in a sexy voice what a great time she had and how sweet I was to her as she gazed right into my eyes. Right after that she literaly stuck her tongue down my throat and we made out pretty passionatly for a few minutes before she went inside.

So is this a case where a women saying your "Sweet" isnt a bad thing, as in "you're a nice guy"?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A girl I was with always said the same thing...and she would always say: "you're cute". It made me feel somewhat childish or un-manly when she said that, but she assured me that if a girl is smiling and says: "you're cute," it's a very good thing.
 

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Originally posted by Timster
A girl I was with always said the same thing...and she would always say: "you're cute". It made me feel somewhat childish or un-manly when she said that, but she assured me that if a girl is smiling and says: "you're cute," it's a very good thing.
I feel that way too when a girl says that, I thought usually you use the word 'cute' for girls. At least that's what I say anyway. But I guess it's better than saying your 'ugly' lol. :D
 

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Apparently there's good 'sweet' and bad 'sweet', and good 'cute' and "bad" 'cute'.

Is there a 'bad' 'hot'?

In any case, don't give it too much thought.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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