"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Said I was "sweet" then made out with me

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So I took this girl on a date after chatting with her a bit. As a RAFC I tried my best not to be too "nice". We had already talked about sex topics before going out so I had that going for me. I did loads of kino on her and we had more talk about sex during the date which went really well. I didn't suplicate yet I gave her plenty of hints that I was attracted to her with sexual inuendo. Took her back home and gave her a little kiss on the lips. She then got real close and told me in a sexy voice what a great time she had and how sweet I was to her as she gazed right into my eyes. Right after that she literaly stuck her tongue down my throat and we made out pretty passionatly for a few minutes before she went inside.

So is this a case where a women saying your "Sweet" isnt a bad thing, as in "you're a nice guy"?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A girl I was with always said the same thing...and she would always say: "you're cute". It made me feel somewhat childish or un-manly when she said that, but she assured me that if a girl is smiling and says: "you're cute," it's a very good thing.
 
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Originally posted by Timster
A girl I was with always said the same thing...and she would always say: "you're cute". It made me feel somewhat childish or un-manly when she said that, but she assured me that if a girl is smiling and says: "you're cute," it's a very good thing.
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I feel that way too when a girl says that, I thought usually you use the word 'cute' for girls. At least that's what I say anyway. But I guess it's better than saying your 'ugly' lol. :D
 
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Apparently there's good 'sweet' and bad 'sweet', and good 'cute' and "bad" 'cute'.

Is there a 'bad' 'hot'?

In any case, don't give it too much thought.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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