"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Levex

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i'm very paranoid about condoms slipping off or ripping, mostly because i dont want to have any kids for 10 more years or so.

can anyone recommend a good latex rubber that can withstand some good pounding and yet feel good. i tried trojan-enz the other night and it felt like a super-thick sock, i even lost my hard-on in the act.

i can cross off magnums, i can admit i'm average size. just something safe and not feeling like a doritos bag.

any thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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More than half of the trojan brand condoms are pretty thick and they just don't feel right to me. I would recommend those for the bigger guys (I guess?) Try Durex brands, I've used Performax and Extra Sensitive (The extra thinner ones) and they seem good.

I should warn you about the thin ones, I would not recommend those for extreme heavy pounding or in extra tight areas. Once I withdrew and while I was tying a knot on the condom to throw it away, it ripped (YIKES!)
 

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Crown Skinless Skin

Thin, nearly odorless (a pleasant change) and seemingly indestructable.

I've used hundreds. Never a single problem.

Note that they don't have spermicide and they're only lightly lubed.

FYI, I'm about 6.75" in length. (you're welcome for the image)
 

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Get some Durex XXL's.

You look like a champ when you pull out the box and it says "XXL" in huge letters.



Whistler,

I'm staying at a penthouse condo there next week. Beware!! All the ladies will be preoccupied.
 

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Whistler,

I'm staying at a penthouse condo there next week. Beware!! All the ladies will be preoccupied.
yeah, by my american schlong

;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've used polyurethane condoms (not a brand, a material). They're MUCH thinner than latex - so thin I've thought it fell off more than once when it was still there. You won't even know it's on once you get going. Just as protective as latex, but a little more expensive. They can also be a bit hard to find. I've had to go to multiple stores to find them (ex is alergic to latex).
 

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Try to go for condoms that have "studs" too , I've heard that girls seem to like the extra studs going in and out of their pvssy - they don't seem to like the ribbed ones though. I haven't tried it cause I got like 20+ condoms left before I plan to go buy some new ones.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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