"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i'm very paranoid about condoms slipping off or ripping, mostly because i dont want to have any kids for 10 more years or so.

can anyone recommend a good latex rubber that can withstand some good pounding and yet feel good. i tried trojan-enz the other night and it felt like a super-thick sock, i even lost my hard-on in the act.

i can cross off magnums, i can admit i'm average size. just something safe and not feeling like a doritos bag.

any thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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More than half of the trojan brand condoms are pretty thick and they just don't feel right to me. I would recommend those for the bigger guys (I guess?) Try Durex brands, I've used Performax and Extra Sensitive (The extra thinner ones) and they seem good.

I should warn you about the thin ones, I would not recommend those for extreme heavy pounding or in extra tight areas. Once I withdrew and while I was tying a knot on the condom to throw it away, it ripped (YIKES!)
 

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Crown Skinless Skin

Thin, nearly odorless (a pleasant change) and seemingly indestructable.

I've used hundreds. Never a single problem.

Note that they don't have spermicide and they're only lightly lubed.

FYI, I'm about 6.75" in length. (you're welcome for the image)
 

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Get some Durex XXL's.

You look like a champ when you pull out the box and it says "XXL" in huge letters.



Whistler,

I'm staying at a penthouse condo there next week. Beware!! All the ladies will be preoccupied.
 

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Whistler,

I'm staying at a penthouse condo there next week. Beware!! All the ladies will be preoccupied.
yeah, by my american schlong

;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've used polyurethane condoms (not a brand, a material). They're MUCH thinner than latex - so thin I've thought it fell off more than once when it was still there. You won't even know it's on once you get going. Just as protective as latex, but a little more expensive. They can also be a bit hard to find. I've had to go to multiple stores to find them (ex is alergic to latex).
 

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Try to go for condoms that have "studs" too , I've heard that girls seem to like the extra studs going in and out of their pvssy - they don't seem to like the ribbed ones though. I haven't tried it cause I got like 20+ condoms left before I plan to go buy some new ones.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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