"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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supajsilver2

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Just started talking to a girl who is very popular and just coming off a really, really long relationship. I just dumped my girlfriend recently too, and sadies is coming up..neither of us have a date, I think she's a cool girl and I felt like I hit it off pretty good, but, she's very shy. Sadies is the following weekend and I don't know if I can get her to open up and ask before then. Dunno how your schools treat it but here sadies is STRICLY girls can only ask. Should I ignore the girls ask BS and go balls out? If not, how can I open her up in such a short time? Don't even have her number but I see her on occasion around the school/at parties and such. Tips?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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musclyjerk

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"Blah blah.. Oh by the way - when you ask me to Sadies with you make sure you blah blah blah little joke blah else I won't say yes!"

In short, let her know she's inviting you. ..and she probably will knowing she won't face rejection.. if she likes you.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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