"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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supajsilver2

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Just started talking to a girl who is very popular and just coming off a really, really long relationship. I just dumped my girlfriend recently too, and sadies is coming up..neither of us have a date, I think she's a cool girl and I felt like I hit it off pretty good, but, she's very shy. Sadies is the following weekend and I don't know if I can get her to open up and ask before then. Dunno how your schools treat it but here sadies is STRICLY girls can only ask. Should I ignore the girls ask BS and go balls out? If not, how can I open her up in such a short time? Don't even have her number but I see her on occasion around the school/at parties and such. Tips?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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musclyjerk

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"Blah blah.. Oh by the way - when you ask me to Sadies with you make sure you blah blah blah little joke blah else I won't say yes!"

In short, let her know she's inviting you. ..and she probably will knowing she won't face rejection.. if she likes you.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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