"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sadies

supajsilver2

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Just started talking to a girl who is very popular and just coming off a really, really long relationship. I just dumped my girlfriend recently too, and sadies is coming up..neither of us have a date, I think she's a cool girl and I felt like I hit it off pretty good, but, she's very shy. Sadies is the following weekend and I don't know if I can get her to open up and ask before then. Dunno how your schools treat it but here sadies is STRICLY girls can only ask. Should I ignore the girls ask BS and go balls out? If not, how can I open her up in such a short time? Don't even have her number but I see her on occasion around the school/at parties and such. Tips?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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musclyjerk

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"Blah blah.. Oh by the way - when you ask me to Sadies with you make sure you blah blah blah little joke blah else I won't say yes!"

In short, let her know she's inviting you. ..and she probably will knowing she won't face rejection.. if she likes you.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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