"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Saddest Thing I've Ever Seen...

StrangeButTrue

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I just got back from a wake for my neighbor, who was only a few years older than me. He committed suicide in college. I never really knew him all that well, but he lived right next door.

I did a pretty good job holding back the tears for most of the 2+ hour line, but once I got to the casket and saw his mother and father standing there...

It damn near broke my heart. I can't imagine what would drive somebody to do something like that, that would destroy their whole family.

No parent should have to bury their child, especially for something so senseless. I saw my grandfather bury my uncle, but I was too little too see how truly sad it was.

This kid was in the prime of his life. The heartbreak on the parents' faces said it all...

I guess I just needed to get it off my chest. Discuss if you want, but don't turn this into any kind of political-religious flame war.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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StrangeButTrue

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He was 20.

My Dad keeps talking about "they're not completely sure what happened" but I'm pretty sure he's full of BS.

He was found hanging. They found him Saturday morning but the family didn't get called till like 3pm that afternoon, so maybe that's why my dad thinks something is fishy. I think he did it himself, though it's so hard to believe- he was always happy, did a lot of sports, had hot girlfriends...
 

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That sucks man. it shows you have a pretty big heart for showing affection to someone you hardly knew.
 
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