"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Saddest Thing I've Ever Seen...

StrangeButTrue

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I just got back from a wake for my neighbor, who was only a few years older than me. He committed suicide in college. I never really knew him all that well, but he lived right next door.

I did a pretty good job holding back the tears for most of the 2+ hour line, but once I got to the casket and saw his mother and father standing there...

It damn near broke my heart. I can't imagine what would drive somebody to do something like that, that would destroy their whole family.

No parent should have to bury their child, especially for something so senseless. I saw my grandfather bury my uncle, but I was too little too see how truly sad it was.

This kid was in the prime of his life. The heartbreak on the parents' faces said it all...

I guess I just needed to get it off my chest. Discuss if you want, but don't turn this into any kind of political-religious flame war.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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StrangeButTrue

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He was 20.

My Dad keeps talking about "they're not completely sure what happened" but I'm pretty sure he's full of BS.

He was found hanging. They found him Saturday morning but the family didn't get called till like 3pm that afternoon, so maybe that's why my dad thinks something is fishy. I think he did it himself, though it's so hard to believe- he was always happy, did a lot of sports, had hot girlfriends...
 

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That sucks man. it shows you have a pretty big heart for showing affection to someone you hardly knew.
 
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