Solomon
Master Don Juan
Damn I didn't agree with everything he said because at times I felt he was to LMSish
But the guy did bring value to the forum
sad day
But the guy did bring value to the forum
sad day
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sad News About Our Friend @SW15
- Thread starter Sega Genesis
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BeExcellent
Master Don Juan
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How did I miss this thread before now??? So sad.
He was a wonderful contributor here, we had many respectful debates and discussions.
Nobody gets out alive at the end of this life and nobody knows how much time the hourglass holds.
His perspective remains here for the benefit of the board....tell your loved ones regularly that you love them and your friends too.
May he RIP....Cheers to a kind dude.
He was a wonderful contributor here, we had many respectful debates and discussions.
Nobody gets out alive at the end of this life and nobody knows how much time the hourglass holds.
His perspective remains here for the benefit of the board....tell your loved ones regularly that you love them and your friends too.
May he RIP....Cheers to a kind dude.
Barrister
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I also completely missed this. I had been wondering in my head where he was as he had been such a consistent (and valuable IMO) poster here the last few years. When I didn't see him posting anymore I wondered.
RIP to you, brother. You will certainly be missed here. So sad.
RIP to you, brother. You will certainly be missed here. So sad.
BaronOfHair
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"God takes your soul
You're on your own
The crow flies straight
A perfect line
On the devil's path
Until you die"
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
You live in Texas? It’s a one hour flight from McAllen to Dallas. I wish he woulda been around for us to hang out, luckily there’s more Texans on this board, but I don’t think his introspective insights can be replaced for a long time.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
I can already feel the guy's presence being lost, I feel like this board lost a note or a riff to a melody. Hopefully more newbies comes in and fills the gap, but he's irreplaceable.
BaronOfHair
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Believe he lived in Scottsdale, probably would've enjoyed
Rainman4707
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RIP SW15. Top contributor here. He will be missed.
Rainman4707
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@Jesse Pinkman in case you had'nt seen this thread.
From what i seen, you were the one that corresponded with SW15 the most on here.
From what i seen, you were the one that corresponded with SW15 the most on here.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.