"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sad News About Our Friend @SW15

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I was wondering about him. He would be on here on a regular basis spitting out statistics and when some posters here noticed that he had been gone for a while, we assumed that he had gotten himself a girlfriend to occupy his time.

It's really sad to hear and reminds you how important every minute is. I remember challenging him and trying to get him to really come at me because I wanted to see what he was made out of.

 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WTH, That’s so damn sad and shocking to hear.
I remember how much of a contributor he was with the posts and had some great, thought provoking threads.
May he Rest in peace.
 

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WTH, That’s so damn sad and shocking to hear.
I remember how much of a contributor he was with the posts and had some great, thought provoking threads.
May he Rest in peace.
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Yes, he was a great guy. Stay safe out and there watch your back because lots of people unfortunately are not in the right state of mind and anything can happen or some unfortunate circumstances can happen. We're living in uncertain times and you just never know when your time might go.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am still trying to process this but
sadly @SW15 passed away on October 26th. :(

He had a seizure while swimming. He was a great contributer here and is missed.

Hearts and prayers to his family and loved ones.

As the message advising this news stated:

"You just never know. Tomorrow is never guaranteed. Go out and live life."

RIP
Oh damn. Why am I only finding this out now.
 

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Damn

That shyte made me tear the feck up...

He was such a great guy, always analytical and factual. Never no beefs and provocations.. the type of guy I would really wanna meet IRL.

SW...I'M gonna miss you my brother. Watch down upon us and we will see you soon and have endless discussions about the game.

RIP
 

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Damn

That shyte made me tear the feck up...

He was such a great guy, always analytical and factual. Never no beefs and provocations.. the type of guy I would really wanna meet IRL.

SW...I'M gonna miss you my brother. Watch down upon us and we will see you soon and have endless discussions about the game.

RIP
Amen brother. :(
 

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I am still trying to process this but
sadly @SW15 passed away on October 26th. :(

He had a seizure while swimming. He was a great contributer here and is missed.

Hearts and prayers to his family and loved ones.

As the message advising this news stated:

"You just never know. Tomorrow is never guaranteed. Go out and live life."

RIP
Oh my!
 

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I want to say Phoenix? But not 100% sure. Early 40s.

I've been re-reading some of his posts. For some reason, they seem to have more value now that he's gone.

We had some really nice exchanges, the Christie Brinkley and Billy Joel threads and some others.

This is just the saddest news, still processing it. He was way too young...
He was in Dallas, although it appears that he had moved around.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Awww nawww :cry:.

I'm just now finding out about this.

This is terrible news, as SW15 was about the closest I've had to a "friend" on here.

He and I were in correspondence regularly in the PM'z, and our last chat was back in Sept.

I had also noticed his lack of presence in recent months, but didn't think anything of it..but never thought it would be because of this.

Fukkk. :cry::cry:.

RIP, amigo.
 

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So did the seizure basically lead to him drowning? If he was not in water, would he have been fine?
 

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So did the seizure basically lead to him drowning? If he was not in water, would he have been fine?
My understanding is it's uncommon to actually die from a seizure although it can happen under certain circumstances.

I can't say for certain but more likely is he drowned in the pool during the seizure which makes this even sadder as had he not been in water, he might have survived.

Without more info this is only a guess but it does make sense.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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These days, hardly anyone goes outside. So I don't want to know how long it was before they found him. Just imagine if people weren't so stuck to their tvs and smartphones these days. He might have lived if at least one person had saw it.

Pour one for him.
 

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My understanding is it's uncommon to actually die from a seizure although it can happen under certain circumstances.

I can't say for certain but more likely is he drowned in the pool during the seizure which makes this even sadder as had he not been in water, he might have survived.

Without more info this is only a guess but it does make sense.
If he has family or next of kin, they would get some sort of settlement if they got a lawyer and threatened to sue. Almost all apartments are owned by corporations with a lot of money and insurance. I'm not saying it was anyone's fault, but that money is there to be had if you know anyone in a position to claim it.
 

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If he has family or next of kin, they would get some sort of settlement if they got a lawyer and threatened to sue. Almost all apartments are owned by corporations with a lot of money and insurance. I'm not saying it was anyone's fault, but that money is there to be had if you know anyone in a position to claim it.
Unfortunately it's not that simple to sue. Apartments don't require lifeguards. Just specific safeguards to keep kids from wandering into them accidentally.
 

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Unfortunately it's not that simple to sue. Apartments don't require lifeguards. Just specific safeguards to keep kids from wandering into them accidentally.
Negligence is a fuzzy standard, ordinary and reasonable in the community. I personally think it's fuzzy to enrich lawyers, so they can always make money from either side. But it's next to impossible to know for sure how a jury trial would go. When faced with a giant lawsuit, it's almost always best to settle. It might only end up being a few thousand bucks, but it would be something for his family if he had any living relatives.
 

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I personally knew SW15 and was informed by his mom about what happened. Out of respect for the family please stop with the negligience/insurance/who was at fault debate comments and/or take it somewhere else.

Lets keep it about SW15 and his contributions to SS.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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