This is my second year at the university and Im studying computer science. But the thing is that im dedicating probably all of my time to study and nothing more. No gf, no friends at all, no activities, no entertainment, no social life, doing nothing on weekends. The problem is that Im missing good oportunities to meet new people because I just don't do anything more than study and any conversation is very boring talking about classes or something like that. I really like programming and computers but right now maybe that passion is ruining my life. I live with my parents and no car so thats a problem too. Im thinking right now that maybe Im wasting this years yeah you get your degree but is it worth it. Any one with the same problem, comments or suggestions?
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Sacrificing Social Life?
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TonyWongButOhSoRite
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You're degree and all that is worth it if thats what you wanna do but you gotta have some fun when you aint in school and all that. Otherwise you'll go crazy!!!!!
jt the azn
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Dude, I had this problem in grade 10. I basically sacrificed all my time to studies and neglected other aspects of my life. My advicee: Don't Do it!!! It's suicide!!!
Trust me on this one. Your school grades will suffer due to depression. You will lose your networking skills and finding jobs will be harder. You will lose conversation skills, and they value that in the work force. Etc... Just don't do it. Learn from my mistake. Try to balance your life around.
Trust me on this one. Your school grades will suffer due to depression. You will lose your networking skills and finding jobs will be harder. You will lose conversation skills, and they value that in the work force. Etc... Just don't do it. Learn from my mistake. Try to balance your life around.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
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people who like computers usually end up with computer friends over the internet... these are real people but are they real in YOUR life? They're not, they're nothing but I guess a hobby of instant messenging..
You need to go out there and meet some cool college people and hang around. Be yourself and show some interest in learning about who they are.
Always keep the goal in mind because you can do this!!
You need to go out there and meet some cool college people and hang around. Be yourself and show some interest in learning about who they are.
Always keep the goal in mind because you can do this!!
nicenomore
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dude.. ur career is important... make no mistake about it... keep it ahead of everything.
For your social aspect , you could possibly go out to the cafeteria or other places, take part in local extra currics, play a sport occasionally...
you can do it .. no worries...
For your social aspect , you could possibly go out to the cafeteria or other places, take part in local extra currics, play a sport occasionally...
you can do it .. no worries...
