This is my second year at the university and Im studying computer science. But the thing is that im dedicating probably all of my time to study and nothing more. No gf, no friends at all, no activities, no entertainment, no social life, doing nothing on weekends. The problem is that Im missing good oportunities to meet new people because I just don't do anything more than study and any conversation is very boring talking about classes or something like that. I really like programming and computers but right now maybe that passion is ruining my life. I live with my parents and no car so thats a problem too. Im thinking right now that maybe Im wasting this years yeah you get your degree but is it worth it. Any one with the same problem, comments or suggestions?
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Sacrificing Social Life?
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