"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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s this guy a player -writtein by a girl"

joe45

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i now this guy right, classmate but hes friendly like with every girl always saying hello to them, and talking to them, smiling too. he does this with like 5 other girls and me too. he started askin me what other classes i was goin to take, how i was doin in the course, said what i do on the weekend, and after a few chats he asked for my msn addy"can i have ur msn addy, we can chat sometime -he brings out his notepad" he also did this with the oother girls too. he always sayin hello to these certain girls, walking with em, how their weekends was and .... small talk stuff
he goes up to these girls right after class after the class is finishes and goes and start talking to them.hi how are you, how are u doin in the course, my name is Sam what is urs, talks about the courses he takes .. typical small talk , but he does it with other girls too,

oh ya and i see him checking out girls too-with the corner of his eye. when i was talking with him and walking along he looks at me first to see if i am looking at what he is eyeing and then he check out these other girls who are at another distant, and he sometimes has this smirk kind of smile.
i seen him checking other girls butts too as they walk pass him in the hallway

ok the question is =-is he a player, what is the guy -a player, jsut freindly,

i see him turning around as girls pass by check out their butts, and he says something in his mouth like "umm ya" with this wicked weird smile. he looks both ways to make sure no one is seeing before he does it, and if the one time i was with him he checked otu this girl with the corner of his eye, he first sees my eyes first then he does the checking out-sneaky

hes always saying hello to me wwhen he sees me, and says what u did last week, and if u studied yet. he told me he was in another college before taking computers but didn't like what he was taking...etc stuff about himself.... and his part time job how slow it is and that he takes extra minutes for breaks ehhe
while the class we had togther, everyone left , and he waited outside class for me, walked me outside the school. just small talking , he said he could borrow the text for the course i was taking since he took that course before alredy.
is this guy playerish
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bryce556

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i wish i could even get to the step of that guy, he dosent seem so smooth but at least he can talk to girl and even ones he dosent know:(
 

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Is the guy new? because if he is new at your school maybe he is trying to make friends. What difference does it make if he flirts with other girls? Unless you like him??

Simple answer: He seems like a slut..*cough* I mean player..:whistle:
 

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I think it's important to distinguish the definition of the term "PLAYER" with just a Man that is ATTRACTED to WOMEN.

In one case, the PLAYER is dishonest.

In the other, the MAN is HONEST.


The term "player" came about to describe men who want to date several women at the same time, yet pretends to be only dating the one he's with at the moment. In other words, he keeps his affairs a secret. In fact, he often uses phony romance and the word "love" disingenuinely.

the "Man" on the other hand, knows it is natural to be attracted to women. MANY Women.
He Does not apologize for being attracted to women. He does not keep this a secret, and is not ashamed of the fact.

He does NOT "hide" the fact that he is attracted to many women, and wishes to date many women.

Knows he is a free man, and can look at any woman and talk to any woman he wants to especially if he is not in an exclusive LTR.
He does not apologize for his sexuality. Or being sexual.
Is perfectly comfortable with himself, and flirting with other women.

He Knows it is perfectly natural to interact with women, and be attracted to them.
He is also NOT DESPERATE. So if he meets a woman whom does not wish to date him BECAUSE he "dates other women". he lets her go and moves on.

He has no FEAR of "losing" Women.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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