Recently I just got out of an LTR. Things were great, I just found myself lusting over so many women that I felt it wasn't fair to the woman I was with to continue. So I broke things off.
Anyways, it's been a while since I've been on the grind with women so I'm kind of rusty. So far I'm happy with my success tho
I currently have 2 women that I see and trying to hook a third. The number she gave to me is a text only phone, but I see her at least once a week. I've been casually flirting with her for a few days in person. I took her home on Tuesday and when I dropped her off we had a nice convo
Me: So you're not going to invite me in?
Her: Well, you can come in but I have work to do. Don't you have to get something to eat? (I told her earlier had to meet up with some friends for lunch)
Me: Ah yeah - some other time ..soon then right. (I didn't say it like a question)
Her: Yeah just hit me up
When I got her number I always call to confirm. Surprisingly she sent me a text the same day asking a question she'd already asked me earlier. I thought that means she was very interested. So Thursday I let my persistance continue. In person I asked to get together tomorrow with a time and she countered, but seemed kind of hesitant. I was doing this in class so she probably just didn't want her business on blast. Plus we had a test coming up so I let it slide. After class I text her asking her about the test and we exchanged basic fluff about that until...
Me: So what time do you have class tomorrow?
Her: I don't
Me: I'd like to keep you company then
Her: Here? In a apt of females
Me: So you want me all to yourself then? Greedy!
Her: Um no. I do have a bf
Me: That's cool. I didn't say anything about a relationship I just want to get to know you better.
Her: Ok. you can chill in the livin room
Now since I've been out of the game for so long, I have no idea what to do here. I know this chick likes me, I'm just having a hard time deciding whether or not to go over there, take her somewhere else or just not go at all. I don't want anything serious with her - just some fun (multiple times if possible).
Also, I don't know how to fully interpret our text convo. I let my intentions be known, yet she's still down to see me. Any help would be appreciated..
Anyways, it's been a while since I've been on the grind with women so I'm kind of rusty. So far I'm happy with my success tho
I currently have 2 women that I see and trying to hook a third. The number she gave to me is a text only phone, but I see her at least once a week. I've been casually flirting with her for a few days in person. I took her home on Tuesday and when I dropped her off we had a nice convo
Me: So you're not going to invite me in?
Her: Well, you can come in but I have work to do. Don't you have to get something to eat? (I told her earlier had to meet up with some friends for lunch)
Me: Ah yeah - some other time ..soon then right. (I didn't say it like a question)
Her: Yeah just hit me up
When I got her number I always call to confirm. Surprisingly she sent me a text the same day asking a question she'd already asked me earlier. I thought that means she was very interested. So Thursday I let my persistance continue. In person I asked to get together tomorrow with a time and she countered, but seemed kind of hesitant. I was doing this in class so she probably just didn't want her business on blast. Plus we had a test coming up so I let it slide. After class I text her asking her about the test and we exchanged basic fluff about that until...
Me: So what time do you have class tomorrow?
Her: I don't
Me: I'd like to keep you company then
Her: Here? In a apt of females
Me: So you want me all to yourself then? Greedy!
Her: Um no. I do have a bf
Me: That's cool. I didn't say anything about a relationship I just want to get to know you better.
Her: Ok. you can chill in the livin room
Now since I've been out of the game for so long, I have no idea what to do here. I know this chick likes me, I'm just having a hard time deciding whether or not to go over there, take her somewhere else or just not go at all. I don't want anything serious with her - just some fun (multiple times if possible).
Also, I don't know how to fully interpret our text convo. I let my intentions be known, yet she's still down to see me. Any help would be appreciated..