She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I rang her moblie at lunchtime.Just got the answerphone.banGbro said:
) All I know so far is that she is studying English and here for 3 more months.sparky0000 said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
sparky0000 said:
Just that I avoid all Russian girls who are not in the former Soviet Union. They get funky and odd once they leave. Do what you gotta do, but one day I will probably marry a girl from that region and when I do we ARE NOT leaving. The West spoils girls. They also put on lots of fat (especially on their behinds) once they taste the easy life of western living. Most of the local girls hate Russian guys. Has something to do with too much vodka and being beaten daily. The rich local girls are as bad as immigrants. Talk about snobs. Provincial girls (even suburban girls) are the prettiest and sweetest. The edge of every town is filled with them.johncrawford said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Wrong. How do you think I fvcked my Russian girl? (fresh off the plane too)
Just looked on wikipedia and I see what you mean!Oxide said:Wrong. How do you think I fvcked my Russian girl? (fresh off the plane too)
John, St Piterburg is one of the best places on earth (prettiest at least - go look up on wikipedia and learn about it's history)
and i wanna see pics of this girl.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Aright buddy I'll keep that in mindOxide said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.