Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Well the morning is the only time you should have an empty stomachZerix said:Any time of day? I read that it's good in the morning when you first wake up and before you eat, to do some low-intensity cardio, but that's about it.
Right. I'll assume he meant the morning-cardio then.wolf116 said:Well the morning is the only time you should have an empty stomach
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What is an example of Morning Cardio? I thought it was a good idea to always eat something before working out...or is this more along the lines of running/walking or something before you eat breakfast, then going to the gym a little later.Quiksilver said:Morning cardio + empty stomach has been proven to be 3x more effective at burning fat than done at another time in the day.
Quiksilver said:Example:
-45 minutes on a treadmill, fast walk(4-5), at a 5.0% incline.
-30 minutes on an eliptical, moderate pace, moderate intensity
-30 minutes on a rowing machine, moderate pace, light intensity
-45 minute bike ride
If you're up above 30 minutes, keep the intensity low(no sprints, no running).