"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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running eat LEG muscle?

Dean

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right been cycling liek crazy last few weeks

suprised to notice my leggs have put on a few inches:) which im pleased about
now i am about to start a 45 day running course,will this eat them?:p

20 minite runs at the most


what you think guys
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No.
Running *can* cause a catabolic state depending on your running habits. But nt just running 20 minutes.

Have you ever seen the size of a sprinters legs compared to a marothoners?

20 minutes aint !@#$. Keep it fast and hard (run hills if you can) and you might even gain. Running hard (sprinting or hills) is key to getting into an anerobic state.
 

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Incase you don't understand what this dude is talking about:

1. Aerobic + Extended time(usually over 30 minutes) = catabolic

2. Anarobic + Short time periods(usually under 30 minutes) = Anabolic

Catabolic: Essentially your body is breaking down complex tissue(muscle) to create energy. This is destructive to your purpose of looking sexy.

Anabolic: Is essentially the synthesis of simple tissue to create complex tissue(muscle).

To take it one step further: Catabolic puts pressure on your muscles, Anabolic puts pressure on your cardiovascular system(a good thing, unless there's a risk of heart attack it makes your heart stronger)
 

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that infomation is more than use full-cheers guys:!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's not so much that you will lose muscle by doing endurance-type training. The difference is that the fiber types don't have the same volume. The type of fibers you develop by lifting weights are made to be bigger and stronger but have very little endurance; conversely, the muscles endurance athletes have are smaller and weaker, but have extreme endurance. That's why endurance athletes are small and weak like little girls, but they can run for hours.

So you won't be losing muscle per se, you'll only be working a different kind of fiber and your muscles will lose volume.
 

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I think one of the main issues lifters are concerned about is that high impact type cardio does a number on the nervous system which is detrimental to overall recovery.
 

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Fred Da Head said:
So you won't be losing muscle per se, you'll only be working a different kind of fiber and your muscles will lose volume.
WOW. REALLY?!!

So I won't lose muscle tissue? Gee I DIDN'T know that! I'm going to go and starve myself. I won't be losing tissue, but my muscles will be getting smaller! Good thing, I was worried for a second there that I would lose mass, but you sure set me straight! Its only losing volume!
 

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Espi said:
Remember that the legs are comprised of slow, fast, and medium muscle twitch fibers.
There are only two types of fibres. Slow and fast.
It goes:

Fast Twitch
Slow Twitch
Super-Slow Twitch (its a variaton of the slow twitch fibre).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
WOW. REALLY?!!

So I won't lose muscle tissue? Gee I DIDN'T know that! I'm going to go and starve myself. I won't be losing tissue, but my muscles will be getting smaller! Good thing, I was worried for a second there that I would lose mass, but you sure set me straight! Its only losing volume!
You also think you actually lose fat cells as you get leaner, right? :rolleyes:
 
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