"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Running Away: Going homeless for 4 days

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Aight yall so im gonna do somethin i never done before, im gonna run away from my life for 4 days and just go traveling...being homeless and see what life is really is!!! I feel like is gonna be a new and fun experience ( hard 2 :) )
nwayz ye and imma go out there and CONQUER ALL MY FEAR AND PHOBiAZ NO B.S.!!!
Much Love to the community, yall helped me out a lot.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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they call it backpacking. every filthy suburbanite does it at least once in his miserable life. usually they end up in amsterdam smoking weed and hanging with other like minded lost souls. the talk always turns to how nirvana sold out after "bleach". they end up trying to impress one another with discussions on indie bands that nobody has ****ing ever heard of. at least one reference from the movie "dazed and confused" is tossed around once every hour.
 
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Join the army.
 
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AznPlaya said:
Aight yall so im gonna do somethin i never done before, im gonna run away from my life for 4 days and just go traveling...being homeless and see what life is really is!!! I feel like is gonna be a new and fun experience ( hard 2 :) )
nwayz ye and imma go out there and CONQUER ALL MY FEAR AND PHOBiAZ NO B.S.!!!
Much Love to the community, yall helped me out a lot.
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Nice to see that there are still a few brave men left on this board...

Good luck!
 
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Four days isn't running away. But it could be a nice little vacation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Result:
Just came back, went 5 days actually... quite an experience it was really
Almost got caught by the cops, got chased by some thugs good thing some stores open 24/7
So nwayz i spend most of my homelessnes in the downtown area, tried
2 go to the homeless shelter but they woudn't let me in :cuss:
but good thing i didnt cuz i probably woulda caught aids.... So nwayz clever me went 2 the local church around there and spend the night there for 5 days:D
To make a long story short, it was fucing HELL!!! I was smelly, hungry and frustrated but somehow i felt really really good at the end of the journey..
I met a couple homeless people, got 2 know their life stories.. met these buncha hippies helped them out by talkin 2 people about the environment.. Went 2 to local bdancin place where i showed and improved on my move'z a bit...
Actually i made some approaches with some of the breakerz i met ahah !!! That was fun i tried out some lines they taught me :crackup:


Nwayz i noticed i did somethin i never did BEFORE!!!! It was somethin really special, somethin i havent done since i was lil, somethin i havent felt since i was little..... But i can only describe it as inner peace and staying in the moment. I realized that these 2 things all i need 2 be succesful in life. Before this journey i had so much free time, so mandance life with the s ame old, lived in a box house, drove in a box car, ate from a box cereal...:yawn:
I was so busy that i had no time 2 worry and really pay attention to all that B.S. i use 2 think about, all my insecurites, all my bad thoughts and fear got somewhat eliminated :D

But i noticed somethin really important, somethin i realized never before...
I asked myself the question, would i ever go out with myself? would i ever want 2 hang out or date my self ???? The answer WAS HELL NO!!!
How the FYK ARE GIRLS SUPPOSE 2 LIKE YOU IF YOU DONT LIKE YOURSELF!!!
OMFG i just realized how fucin stupid I was, how fucin insecure, how fucin fearful i really was... I realized how fucin pathetic i was, i was disappointed in myself.... All i gotta say is imma different person from now on...
 
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Sounds like a great experience. How about conquering another problem and learning to spell? :crackup:
 
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congrats. but u didn't have to go on a 5 day homeless mission to figure this out. It must be different for everyone then i guess... congrats
 
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yeah, that is awesome :up: i took a month for myself 2 years ago, backpacked across Canada, It was probably the best thing i ever did, I met all sorts of different people. It gave me tons of time too reflect on my life decisions, and on what i want too do with my life. And nothing compares too the feeling of not knowing whats gonna happen next. Once you have conquered that fear, everything thing else just seems easier.



Cheers
 
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If I were you I would of hitched a train in the dead of night. Now that would be fun. Not knowing where you are going and all. Might be risky in these days though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AznPlaya said:
Result:
Just came back, went 5 days actually... quite an experience it was really
Almost got caught by the cops, got chased by some thugs good thing some stores open 24/7
So nwayz i spend most of my homelessnes in the downtown area, tried
2 go to the homeless shelter but they woudn't let me in :cuss:
but good thing i didnt cuz i probably woulda caught aids.... So nwayz clever me went 2 the local church around there and spend the night there for 5 days:D
To make a long story short, it was fucing HELL!!! I was smelly, hungry and frustrated but somehow i felt really really good at the end of the journey..
I met a couple homeless people, got 2 know their life stories.. met these buncha hippies helped them out by talkin 2 people about the environment.. Went 2 to local bdancin place where i showed and improved on my move'z a bit...
Actually i made some approaches with some of the breakerz i met ahah !!! That was fun i tried out some lines they taught me :crackup:


Nwayz i noticed i did somethin i never did BEFORE!!!! It was somethin really special, somethin i havent done since i was lil, somethin i havent felt since i was little..... But i can only describe it as inner peace and staying in the moment. I realized that these 2 things all i need 2 be succesful in life. Before this journey i had so much free time, so mandance life with the s ame old, lived in a box house, drove in a box car, ate from a box cereal...:yawn:
I was so busy that i had no time 2 worry and really pay attention to all that B.S. i use 2 think about, all my insecurites, all my bad thoughts and fear got somewhat eliminated :D

But i noticed somethin really important, somethin i realized never before...
I asked myself the question, would i ever go out with myself? would i ever want 2 hang out or date my self ???? The answer WAS HELL NO!!!
How the FYK ARE GIRLS SUPPOSE 2 LIKE YOU IF YOU DONT LIKE YOURSELF!!!
OMFG i just realized how fucin stupid I was, how fucin insecure, how fucin fearful i really was... I realized how fucin pathetic i was, i was disappointed in myself.... All i gotta say is imma different person from now on...
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so...you went "Into the wild" for 5 days and you think your a changed man?

take a look at this guy...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christopher_McCandless
 
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I think its a shame that some of you people encourage this type of behavior and congradulate him. Being homeless and living on the streets isnt the essence of becoming a better person. If you really want to do something, like the others have said, go into the wild or something. BACKPACKING AND GOING HOMELESS ARE NOT THE SAMETHING. This kid tried to go to a soup kitchen...yet no one sees a problem with that. If you want to conquer youre fear, it seems logical to do so in a way thats actually beneficial...youre a helmet.
 
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Good job bro!!!!!!!!

Next time aim for 2 weeks!!!! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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