"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Runner..want to lose weight and be lean

oscarxp25

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I have some muscle on me. I ran a race on New Years and saw, since I have been lifting heavy weights, that my progress has been shortened.

I want to get a body like a runner but still maintain some muscle. I don't want to look like a stick.


Any ideas? Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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runners usually have horrible looking bodies, they are thin but they look weak, type in sprinter vs runner into google images to see what i mean

cut down the running and circuit train with machines and weights instead, nothing will tone up and build the body like resistance training
 

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oscarxp25 said:
I have some muscle on me. I ran a race on New Years and saw, since I have been lifting heavy weights, that my progress has been shortened.

I want to get a body like a runner but still maintain some muscle. I don't want to look like a stick.


Any ideas? Thanks
Good luck. In a study conducted by Stanford over an 8 year period that tracked hundreds of runners, they found that ALL of them lost muscle and gained bodyfat each year of the study. Surprising? No, not really. Running releases catabolic(muscle breaking down) hormones that eat muscle and by extension increase your body fat. The less muscle you have, the more fat you gain. Muscle burns calories, losing muscle means you burn fewer calories.

If you only run and stop lifting weights, you will end up like a stick figure. If you continue lifting and running, you likely will be OK, but there are much more efficient ways of getting lean than running.
 

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Running is not necessarily going to make you lose muscle or gain body fat. You'll probably lose some muscle if you do a ton of distance running but if you do sprinting workouts you'll gain muscle - a lot of muscle. In response to OP, I would say do some sprinting workouts like 3-4 times per week and sprinkle some easy cardio in the off days to burn off some calories. And then, of course, do some lifting as well for your upper body.

Also, just for the record, running isn't really that "good" for you. It's good exercise but it really wears away at your joints, bones, tendons, etc. Having run a lot in my life I can say it's definitely affected my legs. I rarely swim but according to many articles I've read and people I've talked to, swimming is one of the best cardio exercises out there.
 

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I started running back in 2009 on my road biking off days, ended up getting really into it, and do regular 10-15 mile runs.

I've lost a ton of muscle mass. I'd be embarrassed to post how much I could lift then vs now. Granted, I spend most of my time at the gym doing cardio because I really enjoy it, so that's my fault.

Lastly, lots of good reasons to run. Don't listen to all the "running is so bad for you" naysayers. Contrary to belief, proper running actually strengthens your knees, joints, and bones. Reduces your risk of cancer, the effects of aging, boosts your immune system and your mood. Google it, it's all there and more.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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