Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Back to the subject at hand without writing a novel, I went on a brisk 25 mile ride yesterday through the city completely strapped with heart rate monitor, speedometer, power meter, caloric calculator, the works. Giving the stopping and starting at stop lights and such, it took an hour and fifteen minutes with an 18MPH average with a top speed of 31MPH and burned 1243 calories.

Yes, it's about the energy expended; as for time spent, distance, effort and such road cycling rips apart running. Now don't get me started on what mountain biking does for 'ya! :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Riding ur bike is much better for u, you have to do more work but it's worth it. If you weigh more than 160 running long distance will put too much strain on ur legs and will lead to joint problems like my uncle. Running short like 1-3 miles maybe just during the summer is fine but more than 5 isn't good. Running long distance also kills ur muscle and fat at the same time so if u want to get in shape do CARDIO like swimming.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Riding ur bike is much better for u, you have to do more work but it's worth it. If you weigh more than 160 running long distance will put too much strain on ur legs and will lead to joint problems like my uncle. Running short like 1-3 miles maybe just during the summer is fine but more than 5 isn't good. Running long distance also kills ur muscle and fat at the same time so if u want to get in shape do CARDIO like swimming.
That's what I'm saying. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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