"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rudeness

styleman

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her: 'I'm back in town, meet me'
me: 'Sorry I can't I'm out of town on work, and I have too much, can't make it back to London for the next few days, possibly be back by Saturday'
her: 'I fly on Thursday' (1. I already knew this 2. Does she think I'll automatically do something about it...)
me: 'Miss you lots, wish I could make it back to meet you but this work is really important'
her: 'I miss you too, this is annoying.'
(I really had to think here wtf to say)
me: So when do you get back?
her: don't know (awkwardness, of course she knows!)
me: Ok, I hope you have an amazing trip
her: Thanks, bye

Whaaaa????????
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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slickaz

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good job man, dont give in to a chic if she thinks you'll come at her call and beckoning, only makes her think she got ups on you and you're like a pet...now you'll see, if i know my game right, she'll text you on wednesday night or thursday and say, ok im flying back on XX/XX.. keep it free/ see you then etc.
You say, i think im in town around then, but give me a shout when ur back we gotta do somethin.enjoy your trip though..be good!...lol
 

styleman

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slickaz said:
good job man, dont give in to a chic if she thinks you'll come at her call and beckoning, only makes her think she got ups on you and you're like a pet...now you'll see, if i know my game right, she'll text you on wednesday night or thursday and say, ok im flying back on XX/XX.. keep it free/ see you then etc.
You say, i think im in town around then, but give me a shout when ur back we gotta do somethin.enjoy your trip though..be good!...lol
Thanks, I hope that is the case. It is the girls birthday a couple of days after she leaves, do you reckon she deserves a call then if she doesn't call before she leaves?
 

styleman

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Is there any explanation the the ****y rude tone of hers? She is normally nothing like this...
 
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