"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Rudeness

S

styleman

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 3, 2005
Messages
368
Reaction score
1
her: 'I'm back in town, meet me'
me: 'Sorry I can't I'm out of town on work, and I have too much, can't make it back to London for the next few days, possibly be back by Saturday'
her: 'I fly on Thursday' (1. I already knew this 2. Does she think I'll automatically do something about it...)
me: 'Miss you lots, wish I could make it back to meet you but this work is really important'
her: 'I miss you too, this is annoying.'
(I really had to think here wtf to say)
me: So when do you get back?
her: don't know (awkwardness, of course she knows!)
me: Ok, I hope you have an amazing trip
her: Thanks, bye

Whaaaa????????
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

S

slickaz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 14, 2008
Messages
691
Reaction score
28
good job man, dont give in to a chic if she thinks you'll come at her call and beckoning, only makes her think she got ups on you and you're like a pet...now you'll see, if i know my game right, she'll text you on wednesday night or thursday and say, ok im flying back on XX/XX.. keep it free/ see you then etc.
You say, i think im in town around then, but give me a shout when ur back we gotta do somethin.enjoy your trip though..be good!...lol
 
S

styleman

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 3, 2005
Messages
368
Reaction score
1
slickaz said:
good job man, dont give in to a chic if she thinks you'll come at her call and beckoning, only makes her think she got ups on you and you're like a pet...now you'll see, if i know my game right, she'll text you on wednesday night or thursday and say, ok im flying back on XX/XX.. keep it free/ see you then etc.
You say, i think im in town around then, but give me a shout when ur back we gotta do somethin.enjoy your trip though..be good!...lol
Click to expand...
Thanks, I hope that is the case. It is the girls birthday a couple of days after she leaves, do you reckon she deserves a call then if she doesn't call before she leaves?
 
S

styleman

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 3, 2005
Messages
368
Reaction score
1
Is there any explanation the the ****y rude tone of hers? She is normally nothing like this...
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top