"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rubirosa

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I'm in so so shape right now...I had knee surgery recently which has prevented me from working out the way I like. I'm almost 5'11" tall, and my waist feels like it's grown to at least 34". I'm not sure how much I weigh. I'm going to be buying a scale and weighing myself daily. My goal is to get under 168 lbs. w/ a nice sheet of muscle. My main weakness is snacking : cheese and crackers, chips, chocolates, and huge amounts of diet Pepsi and diet Coke. I don't drink or smoke.
My Doctor has cleared me to start running again (albeit very easy) next week. My passion is full contact, hard style Japanese Karate. I haven't been able to do it since I was diagnosed with my knee tear last October. I really miss it. I'm 45, so things heal a little slower......
As soon as I get the scale, I'll start posting my weight and reporting how my shirts feel.........
Wish me luck ! :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just weighed myself on my new scale. 180 lbs. Now I know that doesn't sound bad, but my body is starting to look like Boomhauer's from "King of the Hill". Plus my legs are like sticks of jello from inactivity due to the surgery. Goal for next Friday : 178 lbs
 

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Trying to do better with diet. Had oatmeal with organic maple syrup for breakfast, an early lunch of stir fry chicken that I prepared myself. I'm limiting myself to 4 cans of diet coke today.
 

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Rubirosa said:
I'm limiting myself to 4 cans of diet coke today.
If you need some motivation, google aspartame and the other stuff they have in diet products. It's not healthy AT ALL.
To add onto that, it is anecdotaly(if thats the word) proven that diet coke makes you fatter/makes it harder to lose weight.

Good luck.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Breakfast was scrambled egg whites with Feta cheese with tea. Lunch was a tuna sandwich and diet coke. Today I'm only drinking 3 cans
 

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I've really been working my quads (the muscles which turn soft after ACL surgery). They're starting to feel much stronger. Workout in a few hours, followed my another kind of workout with my female training partner:yes:
 

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Dude, you gotta post a more definitive diet. Plan and stick to it. Your gains and progress will come SOOOO much quicker! Let me know if you need help planning it.
 

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Fuglydude said:
Dude, you gotta post a more definitive diet. Plan and stick to it. Your gains and progress will come SOOOO much quicker! Let me know if you need help planning it.
Ha. Read between the lines Bro :I've been cheating on my diet (I guess I should drop the word "Accountability" from the thread title ).
Today's breakfast was a cheese quesadilla. I'm planning on drinking only jasmine tea all day until 5 PM. No food. You've given me advice before. Much appreciated !!!!!!!!!!! :rockon:
PS Last night was Heavy Bench Press, Plank, Curls, Pullups, Kettlebell swings. The ab workout got interrupted by a makeout session that ended up in the bedroom.
 

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your diet isn't going to get any better if you don't plan it out. i know it's a *****, but it has to be done. simply 'balancing' **** out wont cut it. it's up to you though. if you want to half ass it, you'll get half ass results.

btw, are we talking kyokushin here? cool stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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simba_ said:
your diet isn't going to get any better if you don't plan it out. i know it's a *****, but it has to be done. simply 'balancing' **** out wont cut it. it's up to you though. if you want to half ass it, you'll get half ass results.

btw, are we talking kyokushin here? cool stuff.
I know. I need to buckle down. It's very frustrating because I want to get in better shape for my Karate, but I can't do my Karate yet. It's like learning on bunch of stuff on these boards, yet being confined to living in a monestary.
Kyokushin yes :rockon:
 

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whats stopping you?

worst case, do mirror work and shadow box (shadow karate?). get fluid in your technique and make it second nature to your body.

i know where you're coming from though. it's hard when you can't actually see the fruits of your labor. i didn't (and usually dont) restrict my diet until i started sparring/fighting competitively. now its second nature. ladies dont mind either.

good luck
 

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I can't even shadowbox yet because I get my power from my legs and hips, so just doing a simple combination is still putting too much stress on my repaired ACL. I don't want to shadowbox by compromising my movements because I don't want to build incorrect muscle memory. The good news is that complete recovery is now sooner than later.
 

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I'm doing better. Last night I wanted ice cream...instead I had a small bowl of cottage cheese w/ honey, then I stayed up and prepared chicken for my lunch today (OK, I did add sugar and honey to the chicken mixture). My breakfast was cottage cheese w/ honey and Jasmine tea.
 

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Lunch was chicken by itself with a can of diet Coke.
One of my girlfriends came over for an early dinner :
Chicken tacos(2)
Salad with Japanese Miso dressing
Scoop of Ben and Jerry's
She then baked me chocolate chip cookies. I had 3....no more food for today
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Breakfast : Cottage cheese w/ honey
Lunch : Chicken by itself (very small amount)
Early dinner : Cheese (Mozerella) Quesadilla
3 Chocolate chip cookies
4 cans of diet Coke
I found a cool website about a place that preaches old school barbell lifting in order to enhance all around body strength for rock/mountain climbing

http://www.mtnathlete.com/page.php?page_ID=14
 

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Breakfast :
4 scrambled Eggs (2 w/ yolk, 2 egg whites)
Mozerella cheese quesedilla
Black coffee

I was very busy running errands all day, so I didn't eat anything til 6 PM
(2 more quesedillas)

Went running for the 1st time in 6 months. 1 mile easy jog. Knee felt ok
 

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179. I thought it would be more. My pants feel a little looser. I have made adjustments to my diet, but obviously more is needed. My knee is continuing to improve. Over the weekend a friend helped me install a nice bracket and frame to hold a heavy punching bag.
 

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I've been slipping on the diet. My breakfast today ? Donuts and Diet Coke. I believe I'm missing some sort of moderation gene in my DNA. So.........Sigh...I need to do with junk food what I did with alcohol : Cut it out completely. I know that if I can kick alcohol completely (which I did), I can quit sweets/junk food. So I'm making this commitment now : I want to fight as a middleweight in Oct, so no more crap in my body til then. No exceptions. No cake on Birthdays, no chips cause I'm suddenly hungry at the gas station. Moderration does not work with me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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