“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Rubberphobia

superchristx

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I lost my virginity about 7 months ago, to a girl who was very health/disease concious, worked for an organization called HIPS (sex worker outreach) and generally just aware of all the risks out there. She knew I was a virgin, and to make a long story short we had unprotected sex all the time. Usually I would start out raw, and then put a condom on well before I came. A few times I got to come inside her, anyway I was a little shy at first and had a hard time getting it up, but after the first couple times there was no problem.

Things ended amicably with her, and I've met a nice little punk rock chick, she's awesome, gives great head, great personality. The first couple times i tried to have intercourse w/ her (w/ condom) I just couldnt sustain an erection, sad huh? Well last night I plowed her raw (shes on the pill), yeah it was awesome but it's dawned on me that I've got an obvious case of rubberphobia. I've been willing to trust these two girls, but I KNOW that there will be a lot of slutty/unknown women in my future and I need to be using protection. So please, wise ones, tell me what I can do to condition my pecker to accept latex! I want to do the right thing, I dont want to become some disease-passing manwh0re, but celibacy is not an option.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by superchristx
I lost my virginity about 7 months ago, to a girl who was very health/disease concious, worked for an organization called HIPS (sex worker outreach) and generally just aware of all the risks out there. She knew I was a virgin, and to make a long story short we had unprotected sex all the time. Usually I would start out raw, and then put a condom on well before I came. A few times I got to come inside her, anyway I was a little shy at first and had a hard time getting it up, but after the first couple times there was no problem.

Things ended amicably with her, and I've met a nice little punk rock chick, she's awesome, gives great head, great personality. The first couple times i tried to have intercourse w/ her (w/ condom) I just couldnt sustain an erection, sad huh? Well last night I plowed her raw (shes on the pill), yeah it was awesome but it's dawned on me that I've got an obvious case of rubberphobia. I've been willing to trust these two girls, but I KNOW that there will be a lot of slutty/unknown women in my future and I need to be using protection. So please, wise ones, tell me what I can do to condition my pecker to accept latex! I want to do the right thing, I dont want to become some disease-passing manwh0re, but celibacy is not an option.
get a larger size........ then report.
 

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The solution is to carry a variety of condoms with you, and use them.
 

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person 1: My size is not the issue, my d1ck is only 5" so buying magnums would be like ..... a tube sock on a pencil. Lifestyles fit me fine.

Person 2: You think the blue ones are gonna work? flavored ones? When I put a condom on at the beginning of congress my penis goes limp and I seriously doubt buying the variety pack is gonna help this.

Today I jerked off with a condom on, in an effort to re-orient myself. I expected this to be the first suggestion, and then that maybe someone would suggest viagra. Anyway thanks for the effort, if anybody else has been here please share your wisdom.
 

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Originally posted by superchristx
Today I jerked off with a condom on
There's your problem right there. Don't jerk off for a week, and then see if you have a problem during sex.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by manuva
There's your problem right there. Don't jerk off for a week, and then see if you have a problem during sex.
yeah, he's going to cùm as soon as he puts it inside.

anyway, i used to have the same problem long ago, so my girlfriend and i switched to anal sex (we both are STD's free, our only fear is pregnancy). recently, we've been having vaginal sex again and i managed to put condoms on with no effort. anyway, if we want the second round, it becomes really hard to put the condom on
 
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