"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rubberphobia

superchristx

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I lost my virginity about 7 months ago, to a girl who was very health/disease concious, worked for an organization called HIPS (sex worker outreach) and generally just aware of all the risks out there. She knew I was a virgin, and to make a long story short we had unprotected sex all the time. Usually I would start out raw, and then put a condom on well before I came. A few times I got to come inside her, anyway I was a little shy at first and had a hard time getting it up, but after the first couple times there was no problem.

Things ended amicably with her, and I've met a nice little punk rock chick, she's awesome, gives great head, great personality. The first couple times i tried to have intercourse w/ her (w/ condom) I just couldnt sustain an erection, sad huh? Well last night I plowed her raw (shes on the pill), yeah it was awesome but it's dawned on me that I've got an obvious case of rubberphobia. I've been willing to trust these two girls, but I KNOW that there will be a lot of slutty/unknown women in my future and I need to be using protection. So please, wise ones, tell me what I can do to condition my pecker to accept latex! I want to do the right thing, I dont want to become some disease-passing manwh0re, but celibacy is not an option.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by superchristx
I lost my virginity about 7 months ago, to a girl who was very health/disease concious, worked for an organization called HIPS (sex worker outreach) and generally just aware of all the risks out there. She knew I was a virgin, and to make a long story short we had unprotected sex all the time. Usually I would start out raw, and then put a condom on well before I came. A few times I got to come inside her, anyway I was a little shy at first and had a hard time getting it up, but after the first couple times there was no problem.

Things ended amicably with her, and I've met a nice little punk rock chick, she's awesome, gives great head, great personality. The first couple times i tried to have intercourse w/ her (w/ condom) I just couldnt sustain an erection, sad huh? Well last night I plowed her raw (shes on the pill), yeah it was awesome but it's dawned on me that I've got an obvious case of rubberphobia. I've been willing to trust these two girls, but I KNOW that there will be a lot of slutty/unknown women in my future and I need to be using protection. So please, wise ones, tell me what I can do to condition my pecker to accept latex! I want to do the right thing, I dont want to become some disease-passing manwh0re, but celibacy is not an option.
get a larger size........ then report.
 

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The solution is to carry a variety of condoms with you, and use them.
 

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person 1: My size is not the issue, my d1ck is only 5" so buying magnums would be like ..... a tube sock on a pencil. Lifestyles fit me fine.

Person 2: You think the blue ones are gonna work? flavored ones? When I put a condom on at the beginning of congress my penis goes limp and I seriously doubt buying the variety pack is gonna help this.

Today I jerked off with a condom on, in an effort to re-orient myself. I expected this to be the first suggestion, and then that maybe someone would suggest viagra. Anyway thanks for the effort, if anybody else has been here please share your wisdom.
 

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Originally posted by superchristx
Today I jerked off with a condom on
There's your problem right there. Don't jerk off for a week, and then see if you have a problem during sex.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by manuva
There's your problem right there. Don't jerk off for a week, and then see if you have a problem during sex.
yeah, he's going to cùm as soon as he puts it inside.

anyway, i used to have the same problem long ago, so my girlfriend and i switched to anal sex (we both are STD's free, our only fear is pregnancy). recently, we've been having vaginal sex again and i managed to put condoms on with no effort. anyway, if we want the second round, it becomes really hard to put the condom on
 
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