"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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RSD seems more like drunken game than natural game

The Mad Ghost

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What do you guys think?

I've read a few of there methods, it's basically just being really HIGH in the moment-type game. Where you just say ANYTHING and the girls magically reward you with there attention. For instance,

An instructor called Alex from Australia simply approaches girls with "Oi Minger!, come ere! " And gets great responses, others are "Happy Birthday!, do you wanna kiss me?" and if the girl says NO, a response with "Why not, why don't you wanna kiss me?"

What the heck is going on? Are people actually paying to be taught this? If thats the case, I'd go be friends with the average guy at the club and watch him say those exact things.

What is RSD really all about? They say inner-game. So there outer-game is really being outrageous and high off energy? I don't see how thats a "Natural"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Watch the blue print then you'll understand
 

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Thats not what its about. Part of their teachings is that you should never be AFRAID to do or say whatever you want, and its true. Thats what it means to 'be yourself.' Think about how many times you would have gotten laid if you simply had the balls to act. Not just that, but its all about HOW you say it, not what you say. You can say "I like salad," to a girl, and if you have true confidence in yourself, and the right body language, with the right tone of voice and eye contact, she will get turned on.

When you compare it to 'drunken game,' it is similar. When we are drunk, we often have heightened energy, confidence, and more balls, and we say stupid shyt. 'State," as its referred to at RSD, is like having that without the belligerance. You ever notice how obnoxious guys tend to get more chicks? Its cuz they dont give a fvck.

They say 'state' really means being truly happy with yourself. Girls want guys who are happy with themselves, without the ego attached. Happiness with yourself equals true confidence, the lack of which is the biggest setback to all of our games.

The average guy in the club will NOT have this core confidence, so whatever he says will backfire. You HAVE to have that 'state' behind what you say, and if you do, you can say whatever you want, cuz the girls are reading whats behind it. 90% of communication is without words. Think about that.
 

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of all the PU info , this is definately the one that fits (by a wide margin) best with "DJ" , there are a number of SS'ers on there
just integrate it into your "self"

RSD are doing a "free world tour" so you can get a taste of what they are like, for free (a refundable deposit)
see at http://www.rsdfreetour.com/

July 8, 2010: Chicago, Illinois, USA (6pm-8pm)
July 11, 2010: Athens, Greece (6pm-8pm)
July 14, 2010: London, United Kingdom (6pm-8pm)
July 15, 2010: Honolulu, Hawaii, USA (6pm-8pm)
July 20, 2010: Brussels, Belgium (6pm-8pm)
July 21, 2010: Rotterdam, Netherlands (6pm-8pm)
July 22, 2010: Amsterdam, Netherlands (6pm-8pm)
August 11, 2010: Vancouver, Canada (6pm-8pm)
August 18, 2010: Toronto, Canada (6pm-8pm)
August 19, 2010: Seattle, Washington, USA (6pm-8pm)
September 2, 2010: Atlanta, Georgia, USA (6pm-8pm)
September 15, 2010: Berlin, Germany (6pm-8pm)
September 16, 2010: Los Angeles, CA, USA (6pm-8pm)
September 22, 2010: Munich, Germany (6pm-8pm)
October 21, 2010: Austin, Texas, USA (6pm-8pm)
October 21, 2010: Oslo, Norway (6pm-8pm)
November 11, 2010: San Diego, California, USA
November 11, 2010: Singapore, Singapore (6pm-8pm)
December 9, 2010: San Francisco, California, USA (6pm-8pm)
August 25, 2010: Montreal, Canada (6pm-8pm)
January 6, 2011: Denver, Colorado, USA (6pm-10pm)

the more i see of RSD i more i like it
 

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effort, have you seen the blueprint?
I'd love to watch it, but i don't have that sort of money to dish out.
know where i might be able to get it for free?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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horaholic said:
Thats not what its about. Part of their teachings is that you should never be AFRAID to do or say whatever you want, and its true. Thats what it means to 'be yourself.' Think about how many times you would have gotten laid if you simply had the balls to act. Not just that, but its all about HOW you say it, not what you say. You can say "I like salad," to a girl, and if you have true confidence in yourself, and the right body language, with the right tone of voice and eye contact, she will get turned on.

When you compare it to 'drunken game,' it is similar. When we are drunk, we often have heightened energy, confidence, and more balls, and we say stupid shyt. 'State," as its referred to at RSD, is like having that without the belligerance. You ever notice how obnoxious guys tend to get more chicks? Its cuz they dont give a fvck.

They say 'state' really means being truly happy with yourself. Girls want guys who are happy with themselves, without the ego attached. Happiness with yourself equals true confidence, the lack of which is the biggest setback to all of our games.

The average guy in the club will NOT have this core confidence, so whatever he says will backfire. You HAVE to have that 'state' behind what you say, and if you do, you can say whatever you want, cuz the girls are reading whats behind it. 90% of communication is without words. Think about that.
I get what you're saying, So I should just get near enough drunk where I can still GAME, but just blurt out any thing with the right fundamentals and I'm a validated natural? Thats awesome. I don't know why I stopped doing that in the first place?
 

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The Mad Ghost said:
I get what you're saying, So I should just get near enough drunk where I can still GAME, but just blurt out any thing with the right fundamentals and I'm a validated natural? Thats awesome. I don't know why I stopped doing that in the first place?
You've never had true core confidence, or you would never have needed this site in the first place. Besides, its a lot more than that anyway. The blueprint is TWENTY hours long. Not caring what people think, and knowing that what you say doesnt matter but how you say it does, is just one small facet of RSD.

Also, they like to play this down quite a bit, but they do think canned routines might be good for beginners, and they do use the classic routines in certain situations.

All in all though, its your mindset behind your interactions that get them hot, not the words coming out of your mouth. They dont just walk up to chicks blurting "I like salad," and bang them. They make a point to try doing that and getting it to work, though. They challenge their instructors to do crazy shyt like having their zipper open all night, or getting fvcked up haircuts, just to see if they can still generate attraction, and they do.
 
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