"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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RSD seems more like drunken game than natural game

The Mad Ghost

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What do you guys think?

I've read a few of there methods, it's basically just being really HIGH in the moment-type game. Where you just say ANYTHING and the girls magically reward you with there attention. For instance,

An instructor called Alex from Australia simply approaches girls with "Oi Minger!, come ere! " And gets great responses, others are "Happy Birthday!, do you wanna kiss me?" and if the girl says NO, a response with "Why not, why don't you wanna kiss me?"

What the heck is going on? Are people actually paying to be taught this? If thats the case, I'd go be friends with the average guy at the club and watch him say those exact things.

What is RSD really all about? They say inner-game. So there outer-game is really being outrageous and high off energy? I don't see how thats a "Natural"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Watch the blue print then you'll understand
 

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Thats not what its about. Part of their teachings is that you should never be AFRAID to do or say whatever you want, and its true. Thats what it means to 'be yourself.' Think about how many times you would have gotten laid if you simply had the balls to act. Not just that, but its all about HOW you say it, not what you say. You can say "I like salad," to a girl, and if you have true confidence in yourself, and the right body language, with the right tone of voice and eye contact, she will get turned on.

When you compare it to 'drunken game,' it is similar. When we are drunk, we often have heightened energy, confidence, and more balls, and we say stupid shyt. 'State," as its referred to at RSD, is like having that without the belligerance. You ever notice how obnoxious guys tend to get more chicks? Its cuz they dont give a fvck.

They say 'state' really means being truly happy with yourself. Girls want guys who are happy with themselves, without the ego attached. Happiness with yourself equals true confidence, the lack of which is the biggest setback to all of our games.

The average guy in the club will NOT have this core confidence, so whatever he says will backfire. You HAVE to have that 'state' behind what you say, and if you do, you can say whatever you want, cuz the girls are reading whats behind it. 90% of communication is without words. Think about that.
 

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of all the PU info , this is definately the one that fits (by a wide margin) best with "DJ" , there are a number of SS'ers on there
just integrate it into your "self"

RSD are doing a "free world tour" so you can get a taste of what they are like, for free (a refundable deposit)
see at http://www.rsdfreetour.com/

July 8, 2010: Chicago, Illinois, USA (6pm-8pm)
July 11, 2010: Athens, Greece (6pm-8pm)
July 14, 2010: London, United Kingdom (6pm-8pm)
July 15, 2010: Honolulu, Hawaii, USA (6pm-8pm)
July 20, 2010: Brussels, Belgium (6pm-8pm)
July 21, 2010: Rotterdam, Netherlands (6pm-8pm)
July 22, 2010: Amsterdam, Netherlands (6pm-8pm)
August 11, 2010: Vancouver, Canada (6pm-8pm)
August 18, 2010: Toronto, Canada (6pm-8pm)
August 19, 2010: Seattle, Washington, USA (6pm-8pm)
September 2, 2010: Atlanta, Georgia, USA (6pm-8pm)
September 15, 2010: Berlin, Germany (6pm-8pm)
September 16, 2010: Los Angeles, CA, USA (6pm-8pm)
September 22, 2010: Munich, Germany (6pm-8pm)
October 21, 2010: Austin, Texas, USA (6pm-8pm)
October 21, 2010: Oslo, Norway (6pm-8pm)
November 11, 2010: San Diego, California, USA
November 11, 2010: Singapore, Singapore (6pm-8pm)
December 9, 2010: San Francisco, California, USA (6pm-8pm)
August 25, 2010: Montreal, Canada (6pm-8pm)
January 6, 2011: Denver, Colorado, USA (6pm-10pm)

the more i see of RSD i more i like it
 

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effort, have you seen the blueprint?
I'd love to watch it, but i don't have that sort of money to dish out.
know where i might be able to get it for free?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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horaholic said:
Thats not what its about. Part of their teachings is that you should never be AFRAID to do or say whatever you want, and its true. Thats what it means to 'be yourself.' Think about how many times you would have gotten laid if you simply had the balls to act. Not just that, but its all about HOW you say it, not what you say. You can say "I like salad," to a girl, and if you have true confidence in yourself, and the right body language, with the right tone of voice and eye contact, she will get turned on.

When you compare it to 'drunken game,' it is similar. When we are drunk, we often have heightened energy, confidence, and more balls, and we say stupid shyt. 'State," as its referred to at RSD, is like having that without the belligerance. You ever notice how obnoxious guys tend to get more chicks? Its cuz they dont give a fvck.

They say 'state' really means being truly happy with yourself. Girls want guys who are happy with themselves, without the ego attached. Happiness with yourself equals true confidence, the lack of which is the biggest setback to all of our games.

The average guy in the club will NOT have this core confidence, so whatever he says will backfire. You HAVE to have that 'state' behind what you say, and if you do, you can say whatever you want, cuz the girls are reading whats behind it. 90% of communication is without words. Think about that.
I get what you're saying, So I should just get near enough drunk where I can still GAME, but just blurt out any thing with the right fundamentals and I'm a validated natural? Thats awesome. I don't know why I stopped doing that in the first place?
 

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The Mad Ghost said:
I get what you're saying, So I should just get near enough drunk where I can still GAME, but just blurt out any thing with the right fundamentals and I'm a validated natural? Thats awesome. I don't know why I stopped doing that in the first place?
You've never had true core confidence, or you would never have needed this site in the first place. Besides, its a lot more than that anyway. The blueprint is TWENTY hours long. Not caring what people think, and knowing that what you say doesnt matter but how you say it does, is just one small facet of RSD.

Also, they like to play this down quite a bit, but they do think canned routines might be good for beginners, and they do use the classic routines in certain situations.

All in all though, its your mindset behind your interactions that get them hot, not the words coming out of your mouth. They dont just walk up to chicks blurting "I like salad," and bang them. They make a point to try doing that and getting it to work, though. They challenge their instructors to do crazy shyt like having their zipper open all night, or getting fvcked up haircuts, just to see if they can still generate attraction, and they do.
 
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