"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Week 5 Day 2

Well, although I've not arranged any dates yet, I managed to get another number and another, much more promising rejection.

The number that I got was from a short chat with a nice lass in the computer lab. I was on my way to the gym, and used that as the reason to close and grab her number. Initially, I agreed just to accept her email as she said she never had credit, but immediately afterwards I thought to myself "WTF?", and asked for her number too. I shalln't be using the email.

Also, whilst in the gym and waiting for one of the crosstrainers to become free, I went on one of the exercise bikes. Having never used one before, I used this as an ice breaker to start talking to the attractive lass on the other bike. I got the conversation to the point where she was filling the blanks herself.

I did my best to ensure that I bounced the conversation back on her; but I may have said lots myself. Needless to say, I found out that she had a chap. Bit of a bummer, but no biggie.

The part of the conversation that that occured, I had asked her "Well I can take you out if you like?" and she replied that she had a chap, so I countered "Wll, I can take you out anyway". She seemed quite receptive to the idea. I gave her my number, deliberately putting the ball in her court, before I went from the gym.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Week 5 Day 7

Yesterday was awesome :D

It was the christmas party in a local car club I'm an associate of. I went out with the idea of doing some serious scouting.

It was a little into the evening that I discovery that the curvy cutie from Eastbourne was in fact single. I paid her a lot of attention during the remainder of the evening. I had some competition though, another guy had his eye on her - luckily he was a bit AFC, but annoyingly he was also very witty.

Anyway - I engaged in plenty of reflective conversation, although I think I did talk to much, and tried my hand at proper kino for the first time. I gave her compliments, some subtle others blatant. Anyway - I thought I was doing awfully, that was until she hugged me when I left to go home (and take my mates home too, I was driving), properly sank her teeth into my ear and whispered "Text me"

=O

Oh my god. I've *never* had such success with a woman before. It's looking quite promising to be honest. She sent me a nice photo of her, so I'm going to send one back of my legs and arse. I ascertained during the evening that she's quite partial to legs and buttock, and as they're pretty awesome on me, I may as well oblige.

Let's see what happens =D

At the moment though, my Boot Camp is firmly on hold at week 4 level. I have 2 university assignments due this week. My life's future is more important than chasing women.
 

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Week 6 Day 4

This week has been dominated by my assignments, and as such I am woefully off the ball. I think I scared one very attractive young lady off by being too eager, and when trying to spark up conversation with someone else I encountered a brick wall of thought-process-block - not so much awe in the presence of an attractive woman, more so the sort of thought process block that one encounters when trying to think of something to write but can't.

Eeech, a disgusting week overall. I know for a fact that I am not going to get any better at this by sitting on my arse moping about it though, so I'll be sure to dive right back in where I left off next week.
 
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