RR: (rejection report) Straight Up REJECTED By Pale White Chick HB7

[verysuave]

Supp fellas,

I went to a frys electronic store. I decided to talk to this short cute chick who tells people to go to what register is open. I didn't much have time because a register was going to open any sec. So, i teased a little and went for the kill right away in like under 30 seconds.

me: Nice costume. Are you supposed to be like a midget?
hb: Nooohhh <giggles>
me: So, are you single, married, divorced, swinger?
hb: haha, i'm single. Are you SERIOUS?
me: NO (sarcastically) I'm joking (sarcastically)
me: So, whats your number?
hb: uhh the store?

The line was building up behind us. Then a lane opened so I took off and didn't even say bye or looked back at her...i gave it a whatever attitude.

Well, just for the hell of it, I decided to follow up by calling the store to see if this chick was interested but just could'nt express her interest right there or maybe i caught her off guard when i hit on her thats why she didn't give me her cell. EITHER WAY, i thought it would be good to finally get to the bottom of it.

I called up frys, and asked for her. Minute later...she picks up:

me: Hey, whats up. It's me the guy who liked your midget costume.
hb: umm, I don't remember. Were you hear earlier?
me: Yeah, I was the one who liked the midget costume of yours.. you don't remember?.
me: what's your name?
hb: corine
me: my name verysuave. You wouldn't know cuz you didn't get to ask for my name.
hb: oh were u wearing all black?
me: yeah
hb: I can't talk on the phone while i'm at work.
me: ok, bye..

Since it was halloween, what the hell. I thought it would be the perfect day to tease,make fun and maybe get a number.

Midget costume? was that too harsh or what. LOL

 

[Lord Shinra]

She's probably originally from NJ or an AFWC.

Don't worry, she's probably not worth it anyway if she didn't pick up on your dropping or anything.

 

[The Sperminator]

Midget comment was probably too harsh. Plus you were too direct and didn't really set up your pick up too well. You can't ask her for her number in like 10 seconds. You need to ease into it first. Chat with her a little bit more than ask for the number.

 

[Lord Shinra]

Not to disagree, but if she was working, he wouldn't have had much time.

Then again, most likely verysuave should have built up some sort of rapport before going in. I do admire the courage though.

 

[joey2times]

You sound like a stalker. If she told you her number was "the store" it was pretty obvious she wasn't interested.

 

[verysuave]

thanks for admiring my courage. I also thought that calling the store was kinda creepy of me lol. Oh well, that mystery is solved now. Could it be that I look kinda asian ish? I dont look like japanese or anything with those chinky eyes. more like half flip half mexican.

It's funny, I was a checker, and I would get hit on by women once in a while during busy hours. And my mind would just go blank and wouldn't know how to close the deal maybe because I thought that exchanging numbers while working is embarassing lol. << But this was the reason why I did a follow up on her

 

[The Sperminator]

"Could it be that I look kinda asian ish? I dont look like japanese or anything with those chinky eyes. more like half flip half mexican."

What would that have to do with anything? You got shut down because your game is weak. You tell her she looks like a midget then you ask her if she is single and then ask for her number. That is why she didn't give you her number.

 

[skirtChaser]

hey I was right behind you at fryes when you said that, I heard the midget comment and asking for her number, I noticed you were wearing all black. I also noticed you got arrested for shop lifting when you left, maybe it was the thought of seeing you in those handcuffs that made her say she couldn't talk to you on the phone. that must of been your one call down at the police station.

 

[iqqi]

^^^ lol.

I think that your whole spiel was ok. funny, even. She just wasn't interested.

 

[verysuave]

^^^ lol.

I think that your whole spiel was ok. funny, even. She just wasn't interested.

yea yeah thanks.. I noticed it was just a quick tease and went straight for the kill.

I am starting to think that midget costume was perfect for her

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Don't worry kiddo. Water off a duck's back and all that. You're going through trial and error and this shyt isn't easy.

 

[Microfiltered]

me: Nice costume. Are you supposed to be like a midget?
hb: Nooohhh <giggles>
me: So, are you single, married, divorced, swinger?
hb: haha, i'm single. Are you SERIOUS?
me: NO (sarcastically) I'm joking (sarcastically)
me: So, whats your number?
hb: uhh the store?

For some reason I found this pretty funny. I think you’ll agree with me, when you do something this classy, all you can do is look back and laugh. The rejection is meaningless. Great attitude btw.

 

[Ever onward]

me: Nice costume. Are you supposed to be like a midget?
hb: Nooohhh <giggles>
me: So, are you single, married, divorced, swinger?
hb: haha, i'm single. Are you SERIOUS?
me: NO (sarcastically) I'm joking (sarcastically)
me: So, whats your number?
hb: uhh the store?

She didn't reject you here. You probably just caught her off guard and it sounded like it was a busy day at her work. I think one of our biggest problems as guys is that we are quick to judge anything that isn't 100% interested as a rejection when it may not be. Turn around your thinking so that you judge everything as acceptance on not rejections (until proven otherwise).

me: Hey, whats up. It's me the guy who liked your midget costume.
hb: umm, I don't remember. Were you hear earlier?
me: Yeah, I was the one who liked the midget costume of yours.. you don't remember?.
me: what's your name?
hb: corine
me: my name verysuave. You wouldn't know cuz you didn't get to ask for my name.
hb: oh were u wearing all black?
me: yeah
hb: I can't talk on the phone while i'm at work.
me: ok, bye..

Now others may disagree but I think this is showing WAY too much interest too early. After all, she doesn't feel she has done ANYTHING to deserve so much interest and yet you went so far to pursue her. It almost seems a bit stalkerish. I think your best bet would have been to go back another time when she was less interested, get a quick convo going in which she invests something in the interaction, then show interest and make sure she knows that you are asking for her number and not the store's!

But really dude, A+ for effort. Way to take action. The flirty little interaction at the beginning was MONEY. Just don't call back like that.

 

[Randallpink83]

called her at the stores number.... haha sweet. bold.


I'm all for trying anything, so good job bro. But yeah, most people hate taking calls at work from ANYONE, like your boss is standing there watching you (at a retail store like that anyhow).

Curious though, how did you ask for her when you called? Did you already know her name by looking at name tag? Or did you say "Is midget lady there that is directing check-out line please"

 

[verysuave]

called her at the stores number.... haha sweet. bold.


I'm all for trying anything, so good job bro. But yeah, most people hate taking calls at work from ANYONE, like your boss is standing there watching you (at a retail store like that anyhow).

Curious though, how did you ask for her when you called? Did you already know her name by looking at name tag? Or did you say "Is midget lady there that is directing check-out line please"

Here is how it went.

I called the store (without knowing her name)

Customer service pick up.

Customer sevice: Hello, how can i help you
me: yes, can you please direct my call to the person who greets people waiting inline at the checkstands.
CS: umm, was she wearing this and that..
me: no, she was short, brunette..
cs: around what time did you come in?
me: around 3pm
cs: ohhh i know, its corine. she's currently helping a customer at the moment. Can yoiu please hold
me; ok. ( so i waited for a minute or two. the phone was dead silent. They didnt even have a freakin background music playing. My heart was kinda beating fast -pretty nervous at this moment and thinking of what i was gona say to her

2 minutes later she picks up
HB: hello how can I help you?
me: hi, its me, the guy who liked your midget costume.
me: what's your name? (i already knew her name at this point.. just pretended not too)
hb: corine.
me: my name is verysuave, you don't know my name cuz you didn't even ask.
hb: uhh ok
me: I was there earlier..
hb: hmm i don't remember
me: dont you remember anyone calling you a midget earlier?
hb: no I dont
me: uhh ok. (things were starting to become awkward at this point for me)

and the rest was history..

When she said "she didn't remember", it felt like it was going down hill from there. because NOW, what I had to do was remind her, and convince her like a freaking stalker that I was there earlier. I had to force her to remember.

I normally don't go into pursuing this far.. but i'm so tired of telling myself

WHAT IF, COULDVE, SHOULDVE, WOULDVE....in situations like this which leaves to unanswered questions in my head

 

[verysuave]

She didn't reject you here. You probably just caught her off guard and it sounded like it was a busy day at her work. I think one of our biggest problems as guys is that we are quick to judge anything that isn't 100% interested as a rejection when it may not be. Turn around your thinking so that you judge everything as acceptance on not rejections (until proven otherwise).




Now others may disagree but I think this is showing WAY too much interest too early. After all, she doesn't feel she has done ANYTHING to deserve so much interest and yet you went so far to pursue her. It almost seems a bit stalkerish. I think your best bet would have been to go back another time when she was less interested, get a quick convo going in which she invests something in the interaction, then show interest and make sure she knows that you are asking for her number and not the store's!

But really dude, A+ for effort. Way to take action. The flirty little interaction at the beginning was MONEY. Just don't call back like that.

Yes you are right. That was kinda stalkerISH. I wanted this chick's number kinda bad because I'm gona have the house to myself for another week until my parents come back. he he. SO, thought i'd do some quick fishing.

It's gona be weird seeing her there again when i go back in about 2-3 weeks.

 

[Randallpink83]

of course she remembered you... it was a **** test... a **** test and also probably a big, "I gotta get out of this" tactic...

Who knows, if you would have maintained your state and confidence you could have pulled her, its possible.
But its obvious your state was wearing off, you started feeling awkward.


But yeah i agree, I hate that Shouldve couldve wouldve crap.. no regrets right? atleast you tried. Good practice, now hit up some more :rockon:

 

[verysuave]

of course she remembered you... it was a **** test... a **** test and also probably a big, "I gotta get out of this" tactic...

Who knows, if you would have maintained your state and confidence you could have pulled her, its possible.
But its obvious your state was wearing off, you started feeling awkward.


But yeah i agree, I hate that Shouldve couldve wouldve crap.. no regrets right? atleast you tried. Good practice, now hit up some more :rockon:

wOrd! No regrets bro. Not here =)

 

[Master Bates]

You called her up at work like that? Sounds creepy.

 

[Ever onward]

Yes you are right. That was kinda stalkerISH. I wanted this chick's number kinda bad because I'm gona have the house to myself for another week until my parents come back. he he. SO, thought i'd do some quick fishing.

It's gona be weird seeing her there again when i go back in about 2-3 weeks.

I'm all about being bold and just going for it. I give you praise for doing that. I'm just saying that a few minor changes and you might have closed the deal. Props anyway