it wasn't really like that. it was more like i wanted to go eat, but not alone. so i'd call all my friends and they couldn't go for one reason or another, and so i'd have to go by myself. trust me, i know i was overacting, but it's not a very good feeling to be out of your comfort zone, with no one to hang out with to make you feel better. like i said, my earlier posts were all just me being overreactive. i'm ready to deal with the situation, and i feel i am by expanding my social network while maintaining a solid core group of friends.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Rough times at college
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