"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rough times at college

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
i've been here about a week now and i have about 4 friends

And you are upset about this? Keep in mind there are still many kids with no friends. There are about 16-18 weeks in a semester. You are on pace to have 60-70 friends before Christmas if you work at it. Personally, like women, with friends I would rather have quality than quantity.

it wasn't really like that. it was more like i wanted to go eat, but not alone. so i'd call all my friends and they couldn't go for one reason or another, and so i'd have to go by myself. trust me, i know i was overacting, but it's not a very good feeling to be out of your comfort zone, with no one to hang out with to make you feel better. like i said, my earlier posts were all just me being overreactive. i'm ready to deal with the situation, and i feel i am by expanding my social network while maintaining a solid core group of friends.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Jvesti
READ "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie

After that you should be set.

Become interested in people and they will become interest in you.

Friends are made by similarities. That means those who share the passions and loves you do will be friends. Join groups, frats, become involved in the community
i bought that book after i had the same problem at summer orientation. i read it, but in my heart i know i didnt grasp the concepts well and i didnt apply what i read. this is soley my fault and i intend to recify the situation when i return home.

Originally posted by jive
Have you read this post?

For the college guys who want to meet women
that is an excellent post for picking up girls. like i said though, i have a gf, but who couldnt use the extra ass?
 
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