"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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glass half full

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Anyone here ever heard of women liking their hair pulled during sex?

A friend was at a party recently and heard some of the gals talking about how they liked their man to grab their hair and wrap it around their hand while getting then from behind, they liked submissive sex and enjoyed the hair pulling...anyone else hear of this? And how common is it?
Maybe I've been missing something...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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old married dude

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It's true, they love it. They also love getting their a$$ spanked hard too.
 

Bible_Belt

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You should get on fetlife and read about all the fetishes women are into. It seems like the younger and hotter the girl is, the more twisted her fetishes are.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Handcuffs fellas. Find some. Need I say no more 0~~0
 

MtnMan

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women definitely like this. Pretty much any woman I have dominated has been into it. Even girls that say they aren't like to be dominated to some degree.
 

zekko

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I don't think I've ever met a woman who didn't like her hair pulled. There's a certain technique to it though, it isn't just grabbing some hair and yanking. It's more like you kind of palm the back of their head, close to the scalp, while entangling their hair in your fingers and pulling - gives you control over their head. I think that's what they really like about it - being controlled.
 

MOTU

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Yep. I even do it to my gf when she is on top. And when we are in mish I hold her hands down above her head when I think she is close to cvmming. Puts her over the top.
 
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